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Half of my life is spent meeting very unconventional and unusual people. Even crazy people
Such description seems quite Uranian; Uranus is all about what makes something unique and original, and thus, weird and unusual.
But I'm also rather unconventional myself.
Your natal Uranus is conjunct Saturn, which happens to be its own dispositor. Under this context, Saturn represents the base structure of our lives that forms through challenges and though lessons we receive, therefore, it represents the state or our inner-strength. Uranus conjunct Saturn means that your uniqueness is an important backbone for your own composure. In order for you to have a stable life, you feel the urge to not follow the group and follow whatever you feel like following.
Saturn contacts aren't usually regarded as easy; They're worse at young age, and gradually ease as we grow older (not because they weaken, but because we get better at handling it). In your youth perhaps you felt like the odd-one-out, and you may have felt that that may have restricted (Saturn) some of your possibilities, especially in terms of the 9th and 10th houses (Saturn lordships in your chart; These are, usually, higher education and social visibility/success, among some others).
Your chart lord, Venus, is in opposition with this conjunction. Oppositions always seem to seek a way to express their energy, if not, they create stress and tension. It's ideal for you to be always expressing yourself. Particularly, the contacts between Venus and Uranus usually tend to give the person modern views regarding the aspects of love (alternative forms of unions, such as homosexuality) and, in this case, self-image through alternative gender identity (since Venus lords the Ascendant).
I feel comfortable in these groups because I belong there.
The 11th house represents where we feel like we belong.
Unironically, Uranus and Saturn lord and co-lord, respectively, your 11th house (Aquarius is lorded by Uranus and co-lorded by Saturn). Adding on to the aforementioned, the fact that both lord your 11th house, being 'unique' isn't just something you use to harness your inner-strength, but it's also something you tend to look for in groups. This configuration also suggests that you tend to project your individuality onto others to 'measure' how well of an acquaintance, friend, or even partner, the person in question may be.
Is this due to my 11th house Ruler around its aspects, the house of community?
Without any doubt, due to all the previously explained in this post, yet, not only that, but the planets within the 11th house tend to give an outlook more closely into the kind of personalities your friends/acquaintances have.
Mars is there, in sextile with your Saturn-Uranus conjunction, meaning that your friends not only carry their own individuality and uniqueness wherever they are, but they also tend to actively show it, especially through Mars-like activities, which involve action, sports, and moving-the-body in general.
Returning to the 11th house lords' conjunction, they're in the same decan as Neptune, which means that you may feel at peace with people/communities with the aforementioned qualities, yes, and on top of that, that carry out Neptunian qualities; Neptune is quite complex, it represents everything that's not part of the reality (dreams, imagination and creativity, but also drugs, video games and reality-escapes); Some qualities that come to my mind that may represent your friend-group, when permuting all the given combinations:
- Neptune with Saturn: Affinity to theoretical sciences, puzzles, or theology.
- Neptune with Uranus: Affinity to anything that's alternative to what is mainstream: Unique groups with unique interests other people may find weird or unexciting. May also signify that the group is highly linked to some humanitarian cause (Uranus lords Aquarius), such as easing others' suffering, social service, or helping people in general.
- Neptune with Venus: Highly artistic or recreation-focused: Artistic themes, such as painting, acting, dancing, and singing.
- Mars in 11th house: Active and somewhat demanding/draining.
If I was given the task to summarize all of this in one sentence, it would be quite prone to be off in perspective terms (not in contents, but perspective), however, here's my attempt:
'A serious and committed (Saturn) association or group with serious and committed members (Saturn), with the objective of expressing an original, modern, unique or rarely practiced (Uranus) artistic or recreational (Venus + Neptune) discipline (Saturn + Neptune), through the physical body (Mars), such as dancing or acting (Mars + (Venus + Neptune) )'.
I've also met a lot of new, unusual people recently, in the cosplay area.
How interesting. I had to look up the meaning of 'cosplay' because I didn't know what it was (as far as my research went, it seems to be some kind of costume-based activity with the objective of representing a particular character or a set of characters, primarily focusing on the resultant cultural phenomena rather than the physical costumes per-se as in a mere dressed-up interpretation; Please, let me know if I'm wrong).
That would fit quite well what I said above: It has certainly an artistic compound (Venus), that's action-centered (Mars), escapes from reality (Neptune), it's about uniqueness and its interaction with the rest (Uranus), and it has a serious focus, in the sense that it's not taken lightly (Saturn). Since your Venus, Ascendant lord, is in opposition with Uranus-Saturn and Neptune, seems to be like a good fit for you; Cosplay-ing may have a therapeutical effect on you.
