I am not seeing any of these placements in the synastry we are looking at. Perhaps I am missing your point?Synastry can suggest conflict or tension between individuals based on certain placements. A harsh aspect such as Mars square Pluto or Mars opposition Saturn can indicate aggressive behavior or control issues. Venus square Saturn or Moon square Uranus may also suggest bullying or emotional manipulation. Power struggles are often implied by these placements.
I do see that both parties have Saturn opposite Pluto, which could be, shall we say, equally unpleasant for both parties.
Perhaps the outer Saturn on the inner NN may be most uncomfortable, one obstructing/criticizing as the other reaches for and grows into their calling, their aspiration.