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Things ended with a guy I was seeing recently, I asked today if he’s dating a new girl he met within the past few weeks. Are they dating? I still have feelings for him, and was hopeful.
 

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Since I asked with hope about my situation with him, would I be the first house ruler, or would he?
 
Since I asked with hope about my situation with him, would I be the first house ruler, or would he?
No, you are asking, you are the 1st house ruler, so Venus and the Moon. He is Mars and the Sun.

I think that he has feelings for you, Mars loves the Moon, the Sun has the Moon as trilplicity ruler, so he is comfortable with you, but it is also in your Detriment, so probably he regrets that you are no longer together.
Venus receives Mars by Trilplicity, you like him too and appears to approach to trine Mars, but Saturn stands in her way as an obstacle.
He does not give me the impression he is with someone else, but I cannot see the two of you coming together either.
This is my opinion, I hope someone else responds too. It is certain that you are the 1st house ruler plus Moon, though.
 

Are they dating?​


My initial thought with the early rising point is that your question is premature. That to me implies that it may be too early for him to have begun dating someone.

It does look like he/Mars may have meet someone/Sun not too long ago? Sun liked him quite a bit, but the aspect was by opposition, which often is not favorable as far as lasting in relationship horary and Mars did not receive Sun at all. I don't see anything else. It looks like he is bummed in general, Mars in its fall in Cancer and retrograde.
 
Thank you so much, @IRIS70 and @IleneK , for your thoughtful responses, I really appreciate it!

@IRIS70 , that’s reassuring to hear. I often wondered if he truly liked or cared for me because his actions sometimes felt cold, and I assumed someone who liked me would act more caring. But since we’re from different cultures, I wonder if that played a role. Thank you for clarifying the 1st house ruler too, it's been a while since I’ve worked with a horary chart!

@IleneK , it’s interesting you mentioned he seemed bummed, I assumed he was having a great time, but that Mars retrograde placement didn’t seem fun. Your insight aligns with the text he just sent me, which I want to share:

He texted me 10 minutes ago! We hadn’t spoken in a month, and I thought it was over, but he said he’s moving back to Italy at the end of February and wants to see me before leaving. He even invited me to visit him in Italy... I was not expecting this text.

I just drew a chart to ask if he’ll actually move back to Italy (he used to say it often but never did) or if he’ll stay here with me. Is it too early to read a new chart? Should I post it here?

Thank you both again for your interpretations, they bring such clarity and positive perspective!
 
Thank you for this update.
The original chart points to his going back, with Mars retrograde symbolizing returning and it being in his turned 4th house.
It does seem to me too soon to post another chart...and you will find out for sure very soon.
 
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