Hello,
I have been working in my new job for about 5 months now. I am 34 years old but bc i changed professions i am an assistant now and my tasks are less responsible than previousely.
The problem is that i am Aries Capricorn Leo, my supervisor is a 67 y o woman double Scorpio and my main boss is Aries Sun Leo Moon man who is 49 y o. Because i know now he is a flirt and like attention of other women, especially younger, i am aware od my actions and i do not try to unconsciously flirt or be someone else. The problem is that we also work in weird conditions not only at the desk/office but also on outside trips and we spend time in hotels and etc. So this job also involves our private life. The problem is that at the beginning i was very shy and i felt uncomfortable. I could not set up any normal connection with Scorpio or Aries because i was afraid and stressed out and i couldnt even express myself. After time passed by i do not have this bourden on me anymore and i am myself. The problem is that “myself” meaning: confident, funny, witty, fast, hardworking and ambitious. I started to see that with my normal self i do tasks very fast and i complete them on the level that bosses are surprised i did that. Unfortunately i see than whenever i become myself and confident in what i do my main boss - Aries man teases me, makes fun of me and comments on my actions. He behaved as he would not treat me as an employee but as a friend or someone who is younger and funny. He laughts when Scorpio tells stories about how i manage things ( and do them 100%) and he makes fun of the way i try to be communicative and professional- he realised that i get angry fast and I am not shy anymore as i used to be- i am powerful and i can tell people my mind and the way i tell is very confident but he makes fun of it as i am always angry and " too assertive" he told me it many times laughing and smiling that I am this and this, and I shouldn't be assertive…. I don't understand it because I know no-one helps me here with my job and I have changed to be more assertive and I am happy about it. For me he should be happy that his employee became more confident and is not afraid anymore... But he comments on my actions LOL....
I really do not understand it because i remember myself at the beginning of this job when i was so shy that i felt a blocksge inside my chest. It was because of new environment and a new way of living- new city and etc. But after months i started to relax and became myself- a good professional who i have always been in other profession. Aries boss is not nice to me anymore as he used to be, he treats me as a friend who he can tease all the time and make fun of but then he turns so cold that I don't really understand his manipulative behaviour. He does not treat me as a professional - as other members - but as a funny person.
I dont know how i can change it. He really likes submissive employees - Scorpio supervisor woman is more like Libra Scorpio cusp- she never gets angry and is not competitive. He puts her down many times and she doesn't reacts on his comments and arguments,. He quarrels with other Aries guy who is my age - because he doesnt want to compromise to him 100% and is confident in what he does… now Aries boss attention is put on my other friend who is very submissive born in October but idk if she is Libra or Scorpio.
I see that Aries boss does not like me ( professionally) as her because to her is more professional and even his voice is calmed down- to me he ignores me when i talk to him or tries to tease : make fun of me. I dont know why. A few days before someone asked about some meeting outside the hotel. I wrote that I was eager to join but I must finish my running. During the meeting it was very ok, normal atmosphere.
Next day Aries boss commented on my "running" in a way that i wanted to show myself to the world that I run and thats why i exercised in front of a hotel. he told me in a funny, weird way that I wanted to impress others with my ability to run and exercise....
I was so surprised that he observed my behavior that i couldnt believe- i just wanted to exercise in front of a building because i didnt have any other place to do so- after this comment now i take other streets to exercise before a run because i dont want any other comments and his observations… he points out my behaviours and other things and makes fun of it… why? I dont feel well with it bc i dont make fun of him bc he's my boss.
I send my chart and synastry with Aries man.
I have been working in my new job for about 5 months now. I am 34 years old but bc i changed professions i am an assistant now and my tasks are less responsible than previousely.
The problem is that i am Aries Capricorn Leo, my supervisor is a 67 y o woman double Scorpio and my main boss is Aries Sun Leo Moon man who is 49 y o. Because i know now he is a flirt and like attention of other women, especially younger, i am aware od my actions and i do not try to unconsciously flirt or be someone else. The problem is that we also work in weird conditions not only at the desk/office but also on outside trips and we spend time in hotels and etc. So this job also involves our private life. The problem is that at the beginning i was very shy and i felt uncomfortable. I could not set up any normal connection with Scorpio or Aries because i was afraid and stressed out and i couldnt even express myself. After time passed by i do not have this bourden on me anymore and i am myself. The problem is that “myself” meaning: confident, funny, witty, fast, hardworking and ambitious. I started to see that with my normal self i do tasks very fast and i complete them on the level that bosses are surprised i did that. Unfortunately i see than whenever i become myself and confident in what i do my main boss - Aries man teases me, makes fun of me and comments on my actions. He behaved as he would not treat me as an employee but as a friend or someone who is younger and funny. He laughts when Scorpio tells stories about how i manage things ( and do them 100%) and he makes fun of the way i try to be communicative and professional- he realised that i get angry fast and I am not shy anymore as i used to be- i am powerful and i can tell people my mind and the way i tell is very confident but he makes fun of it as i am always angry and " too assertive" he told me it many times laughing and smiling that I am this and this, and I shouldn't be assertive…. I don't understand it because I know no-one helps me here with my job and I have changed to be more assertive and I am happy about it. For me he should be happy that his employee became more confident and is not afraid anymore... But he comments on my actions LOL....
I really do not understand it because i remember myself at the beginning of this job when i was so shy that i felt a blocksge inside my chest. It was because of new environment and a new way of living- new city and etc. But after months i started to relax and became myself- a good professional who i have always been in other profession. Aries boss is not nice to me anymore as he used to be, he treats me as a friend who he can tease all the time and make fun of but then he turns so cold that I don't really understand his manipulative behaviour. He does not treat me as a professional - as other members - but as a funny person.
I dont know how i can change it. He really likes submissive employees - Scorpio supervisor woman is more like Libra Scorpio cusp- she never gets angry and is not competitive. He puts her down many times and she doesn't reacts on his comments and arguments,. He quarrels with other Aries guy who is my age - because he doesnt want to compromise to him 100% and is confident in what he does… now Aries boss attention is put on my other friend who is very submissive born in October but idk if she is Libra or Scorpio.
I see that Aries boss does not like me ( professionally) as her because to her is more professional and even his voice is calmed down- to me he ignores me when i talk to him or tries to tease : make fun of me. I dont know why. A few days before someone asked about some meeting outside the hotel. I wrote that I was eager to join but I must finish my running. During the meeting it was very ok, normal atmosphere.
Next day Aries boss commented on my "running" in a way that i wanted to show myself to the world that I run and thats why i exercised in front of a hotel. he told me in a funny, weird way that I wanted to impress others with my ability to run and exercise....
I was so surprised that he observed my behavior that i couldnt believe- i just wanted to exercise in front of a building because i didnt have any other place to do so- after this comment now i take other streets to exercise before a run because i dont want any other comments and his observations… he points out my behaviours and other things and makes fun of it… why? I dont feel well with it bc i dont make fun of him bc he's my boss.
I send my chart and synastry with Aries man.
