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Hope this finds you all well. Sorry for the long description.
A brief description of the situation : My wife and i have been fighting legal custody for my only son, my son was being taken care (since his birth) by me and my Mom, one day I got to know about her affair, i addressed the situation to her , she admitted and we got separated(not legally). Since, we both were working that time and my child was with me so i did not have to pay any maintenance amount to her. This went on for few months (i made peace with my situation). My son was happy with me and me mother.
I am not sure who suggested her this but one day she filed a report of missing son, came with police took my son and filed a maintenance suite on me (In my country mother got the first right to be with her child, fathers are literally secondary) . I do not care about the maintenance suite but i miss my son and i was devastated. So, the only solution was for me was to file a legal case for custody of my kid. During the proceedings i got to know, she has since then quit her job to claim more alimony amount from me and despite being granted visitation by judge she is not allowing me to see him. Now, I don't want to pay maintenance to her , it is not just. She is more qualified than me. And i also know if i pay the huge monthly amount to her ,its just not just and i have my mother responsibilities on me and if i pay, i am not getting my son back(she doesn't even care about him). So like her i am also considering quitting my job such that the maintenance amount will be bare minimum. But my job is in a private sector and recession is looming around the corner. i cant think properly. i have a house to run on my own.
Question : Shall i quit my current job? what does future hold? i am way too worried.
Hope this finds you all well. Sorry for the long description.
A brief description of the situation : My wife and i have been fighting legal custody for my only son, my son was being taken care (since his birth) by me and my Mom, one day I got to know about her affair, i addressed the situation to her , she admitted and we got separated(not legally). Since, we both were working that time and my child was with me so i did not have to pay any maintenance amount to her. This went on for few months (i made peace with my situation). My son was happy with me and me mother.
I am not sure who suggested her this but one day she filed a report of missing son, came with police took my son and filed a maintenance suite on me (In my country mother got the first right to be with her child, fathers are literally secondary) . I do not care about the maintenance suite but i miss my son and i was devastated. So, the only solution was for me was to file a legal case for custody of my kid. During the proceedings i got to know, she has since then quit her job to claim more alimony amount from me and despite being granted visitation by judge she is not allowing me to see him. Now, I don't want to pay maintenance to her , it is not just. She is more qualified than me. And i also know if i pay the huge monthly amount to her ,its just not just and i have my mother responsibilities on me and if i pay, i am not getting my son back(she doesn't even care about him). So like her i am also considering quitting my job such that the maintenance amount will be bare minimum. But my job is in a private sector and recession is looming around the corner. i cant think properly. i have a house to run on my own.
Question : Shall i quit my current job? what does future hold? i am way too worried.