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Hello
Hope this finds you all well. Sorry for the long description.
A brief description of the situation : My wife and i have been fighting legal custody for my only son, my son was being taken care (since his birth) by me and my Mom, one day I got to know about her affair, i addressed the situation to her , she admitted and we got separated(not legally). Since, we both were working that time and my child was with me so i did not have to pay any maintenance amount to her. This went on for few months (i made peace with my situation). My son was happy with me and me mother.
I am not sure who suggested her this but one day she filed a report of missing son, came with police took my son and filed a maintenance suite on me (In my country mother got the first right to be with her child, fathers are literally secondary) . I do not care about the maintenance suite but i miss my son and i was devastated. So, the only solution was for me was to file a legal case for custody of my kid. During the proceedings i got to know, she has since then quit her job to claim more alimony amount from me and despite being granted visitation by judge she is not allowing me to see him. Now, I don't want to pay maintenance to her , it is not just. She is more qualified than me. And i also know if i pay the huge monthly amount to her ,its just not just and i have my mother responsibilities on me and if i pay, i am not getting my son back(she doesn't even care about him). So like her i am also considering quitting my job such that the maintenance amount will be bare minimum. But my job is in a private sector and recession is looming around the corner. i cant think properly. i have a house to run on my own.
Question : Shall i quit my current job? what does future hold? i am way too worried.
 

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I am sorry that this has happened to you.

Let's take as our first principle that the most important thing here is your son's welfare. Your vindictive ex-wife is causing you all kinds of grief, apparently out of a sense of revenge, but the ultimate goal here is your son's well-being. His situation now isn't ideal, but please work with his given reality, not against it.

So quitting your job isn't going to help. You may still be required to pay child support, and to do sowhile you are unemployed. Astrologically the moon is in detriment conjunct your 10th house career cusp, but it does apply to a sextile with Mercury, Mercury rules both young children and money, so if you can stay calm but purposeful, you should be able to make the best of a difficult situation.

I think your best bet is either to find a more effective lawyer, or to get the lawyer that you have now to ensure your visitation rights.
 
Please give your date, time and place of birth so that I could examine your birth chart. If possible give the same details for your son.
 
Mathur, sometimes people wish to keep these details private. However, it is always possible to get someone's birth date and time by comparing horoscope placements with the help of an ephemeris. I am told that a clever astrologer can also get the location off the MC, but I am not clever enough to do it, myself.
 
Mathur, sometimes people wish to keep these details private. However, it is always possible to get someone's birth date and time by comparing horoscope placements with the help of an ephemeris. I am told that a clever astrologer can also get the location off the MC, but I am not clever enough to do it, myself.
The extent the querent would like to give his details is upto him no doubt but not all astrologers may like to spend time working out the place of birth when it can easily be made available.
 
Hello
Hope this finds you all well. Sorry for the long description.
A brief description of the situation : My wife and i have been fighting legal custody for my only son, my son was being taken care (since his birth) by me and my Mom, one day I got to know about her affair, i addressed the situation to her , she admitted and we got separated(not legally). Since, we both were working that time and my child was with me so i did not have to pay any maintenance amount to her. This went on for few months (i made peace with my situation). My son was happy with me and me mother.
I am not sure who suggested her this but one day she filed a report of missing son, came with police took my son and filed a maintenance suite on me (In my country mother got the first right to be with her child, fathers are literally secondary) . I do not care about the maintenance suite but i miss my son and i was devastated. So, the only solution was for me was to file a legal case for custody of my kid. During the proceedings i got to know, she has since then quit her job to claim more alimony amount from me and despite being granted visitation by judge she is not allowing me to see him. Now, I don't want to pay maintenance to her , it is not just. She is more qualified than me. And i also know if i pay the huge monthly amount to her ,its just not just and i have my mother responsibilities on me and if i pay, i am not getting my son back(she doesn't even care about him). So like her i am also considering quitting my job such that the maintenance amount will be bare minimum. But my job is in a private sector and recession is looming around the corner. i cant think properly. i have a house to run on my own.
Question : Shall i quit my current job? what does future hold? i am way too worried.
dear
looking at your chart I don't see anything bad about your job, on the contrary, you will be very well and in fact things will get better in the future. You should be patient. The chart shows that you are favored,
I would advise you not to make hasty moves (Aries ascendant), because your secret or behind-the-scenes moves (Mars with anti-shadow in Scorpio) that will concern your wife (7th), will harm you (opposite to the ascendant)=you

I also see that your child loves and is well with his mother, and in the future he will definitely come to you, that is, you will be able to see it.
Of course, don't leave your job for any reason....
 
Finding the date and time of birth off a horoscope and ephemeris is not difficult or very time-consuming, mathur dinesh.

I make this point because some people prefer to keep their anonymity and privacy. Of course, devanand can post or PM his birth data to you if he choses.
 
Hello
Hope this finds you all well. Sorry for the long description.
A brief description of the situation : My wife and i have been fighting legal custody for my only son, my son was being taken care (since his birth) by me and my Mom, one day I got to know about her affair, i addressed the situation to her , she admitted and we got separated(not legally). Since, we both were working that time and my child was with me so i did not have to pay any maintenance amount to her. This went on for few months (i made peace with my situation). My son was happy with me and me mother.
I am not sure who suggested her this but one day she filed a report of missing son, came with police took my son and filed a maintenance suite on me (In my country mother got the first right to be with her child, fathers are literally secondary) . I do not care about the maintenance suite but i miss my son and i was devastated. So, the only solution was for me was to file a legal case for custody of my kid. During the proceedings i got to know, she has since then quit her job to claim more alimony amount from me and despite being granted visitation by judge she is not allowing me to see him. Now, I don't want to pay maintenance to her , it is not just. She is more qualified than me. And i also know if i pay the huge monthly amount to her ,its just not just and i have my mother responsibilities on me and if i pay, i am not getting my son back(she doesn't even care about him). So like her i am also considering quitting my job such that the maintenance amount will be bare minimum. But my job is in a private sector and recession is looming around the corner. i cant think properly. i have a house to run on my own.
Question : Shall i quit my current job? what does future hold? i am way too worried.
Hi, when I just started reading your post I thought definetely he will be an Indian ..... because it's happen only in India .............. share the birth details of you , your wife and kid to get the true answer of this question ........
 
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