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eva_the_dreamer

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Hi everyone! Happy New Year 🎆🎊🥳

dear astrologers, i would like to know if my bf has someone else, even if just virtually. He has been active a tiny teeny bit suspicious and we actually had an argument about it last night…he told me I’m being jealous for no reason 😇and i think…maybe it’s true and i should just stop it…
This is why wanted to ask this horary. What do you think?
 

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Hi Eva,

A happy new year to you as well. May there be peace for your country!

To be honest I don't see much suspicious in the chart. None of the usual indicators, including Arabic lots fall in those places.

Your fight seems to be indicated (and inspired?) by the full Moon in both your third houses. The full Moon is known for heightened emotions. Under a strong Mars (fighting) influence maybe even more so.

You are signified by that Mars and the Moon, his emotions, sexuality in part, is with the Sun in your third.

If one really really tries it could be found perhaps. On your side too by the way.

His Sun has the Moon in detriment, he may hold some disharmonious feelings towards you. If I were to guess this could have to do with a feeling of 'needing some space' or freedom.
That's because his significator Venus is with Saturn, Sun is ruled by Saturn and the nature of Saturn is a binding, convining one, structured within borders; his house (7th) holds the freedom loving Uranus.
May be something to talk about? Maybe not, you know this.

That's what I can (not) make of it anyhow. Good for you basically. I hope I'm right too.
 
Hi Eva,

A happy new year to you as well. May there be peace for your country!

To be honest I don't see much suspicious in the chart. None of the usual indicators, including Arabic lots fall in those places.

Your fight seems to be indicated (and inspired?) by the full Moon in both your third houses. The full Moon is known for heightened emotions. Under a strong Mars (fighting) influence maybe even more so.

You are signified by that Mars and the Moon, his emotions, sexuality in part, is with the Sun in your third.

If one really really tries it could be found perhaps. On your side too by the way.

His Sun has the Moon in detriment, he may hold some disharmonious feelings towards you. If I were to guess this could have to do with a feeling of 'needing some space' or freedom.
That's because his significator Venus is with Saturn, Sun is ruled by Saturn and the nature of Saturn is a binding, convining one, structured within borders; his house (7th) holds the freedom loving Uranus.
May be something to talk about? Maybe not, you know this.

That's what I can (not) make of it anyhow. Good for you basically. I hope I'm right too.
Hi Nailu!
Thanks so much for your response, I see many things you found seem accurate! For example we had our fight last night via texting (so, a 3rd house is involved); then also he did tell me that he needs some space…in a sense that he doesn’t want to explain himself every time he disappears for a few hours (I don’t ask him that btw, just the last night we said some things while arguing); and yes he is acting distant today where i can sense he is a bit pissed off with me…
Ah well, at we now know there is no other woman! I just need to get my act together 😅
Thank you for your response and also thank you very much for the peace wishes ❤️
 
There may be someone/Saturn who is infatuated with him/Venus with Saturn receiving Venus by exaltation. Saturn does not reciprocate in kind, but does have some level of caring as Sat receives Venus by triplicity.
I suppose my greatest concern tho may be Jupiter. Venus is in a very close applying easy trine to Jupiter, both moving toward each other, and Venus receives Jup by dignity.

Since these are aspects that have not yet occurred but will soon, I don’t know that would go so far as to say he *has* someone else.
But I do think he may be looking and liking what he sees, and that also others may like looking at him.
 
There may be someone/Saturn who is infatuated with him/Venus with Saturn receiving Venus by exaltation. Saturn does not reciprocate in kind, but does have some level of caring as Sat receives Venus by triplicity.
I suppose my greatest concern tho may be Jupiter. Venus is in a very close applying easy trine to Jupiter, both moving toward each other, and Venus receives Jup by dignity.

Since these are aspects that have not yet occurred but will soon, I don’t know that would go so far as to say he *has* someone else.
But I do think he may be looking and liking what he sees, and that also others may like looking at him.
Thank you very much for your opinion Ilenek! Just one quick question: none of these two potential ladies is me, right? if that is for certain then I do understand the answer, thanks you. I did sense that something was off…
 
Thank you very much for your opinion Ilenek! Just one quick question: none of these two potential ladies is me, right? if that is for certain then I do understand the answer, thanks you. I did sense that something was off…
You are welcome.
As I see your planetary significators in this question as Mars and Moon, neither Venus nor Jupiter are being you.
 
I'm reading Lilly on seventh house questions at the moment and tried to apply his techniques to your chart, with inconclusive results, so I ended up doing what I usually do in questions like this and looked for connections with Lord 7.

Like IleneK, I noticed the Jupiter connection. Jupiter is in terrible condition and also is square to Lord 7 Venus. If one uses Ptolemaic terms, Venus is receiving Jupiter by term and Face, if we use Dorothean terms Venus receives Jupiter only by Face. Either way, this is more of a friendship type reception rather than a strong interest. Your BF probably feels sorry for Jupiter, given that it's in detriment and slow.

With the Venus Saturn question, @IleneK, for Saturn to receive Venus by exaltation, wouldn't Saturn have to be in Libra? I'm fairly sure that it is Venus who is receiving Saturn by exaltation. What do you think? And Jupiter rules the two of them, hmm...

I'll give this some more thought.
 
Like IleneK, I noticed the Jupiter connection. Jupiter is in terrible condition and also is square to Lord 7 Venus. If one uses Ptolemaic terms, Venus is receiving Jupiter by term and Face, if we use Dorothean terms Venus receives Jupiter only by Face. Either way, this is more of a friendship type reception rather than a strong interest. Your BF probably feels sorry for Jupiter, given that it's in detriment and slow.

With the Venus Saturn question, @IleneK, for Saturn to receive Venus by exaltation, wouldn't Saturn have to be in Libra? I'm fairly sure that it is Venus who is receiving Saturn by exaltation. What do you think? And Jupiter rules the two of them, hmm...

I'll give this some more thought.
Thank you for your thoughts and this question about reception, Rhys. I am not a very well studied or sophisticated practitioner of horary. In my years of watching and accumulating information about it, I observed that reception is seen in two ways, the way you are suggesting and the way I am employing it here. And until the last year or so, I used reception as you suggest here in my very simple practice of horary.

Then I decided to observe results applying reception in this other way, as I have here. In addition, during this time I’ve also allowed myself to be more frree and imaginative in my storytelling of what I see i the chart. So I cant really isolate them, but for me looking back, it seems the way I am currently employing reception is seeming to fit pretty well what happens a good deal of the time…?? 😊
This is just to say that I don’t know that this is applying reception in the proper way, only that it is the method I am evaluating at this time.

I always appreciate your generous posts, Rhys. Thank you for this one.
 
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I'm reading Lilly on seventh house questions at the moment and tried to apply his techniques to your chart, with inconclusive results, so I ended up doing what I usually do in questions like this and looked for connections with Lord 7.

Like IleneK, I noticed the Jupiter connection. Jupiter is in terrible condition and also is square to Lord 7 Venus. If one uses Ptolemaic terms, Venus is receiving Jupiter by term and Face, if we use Dorothean terms Venus receives Jupiter only by Face. Either way, this is more of a friendship type reception rather than a strong interest. Your BF probably feels sorry for Jupiter, given that it's in detriment and slow.

With the Venus Saturn question, @IleneK, for Saturn to receive Venus by exaltation, wouldn't Saturn have to be in Libra? I'm fairly sure that it is Venus who is receiving Saturn by exaltation. What do you think? And Jupiter rules the two of them, hmm...

I'll give this some more thought.
Hi Rhys! Thank you very much for your opinion! I really appreciate you taking the time to have a look!
From my side and as an update I can only say so far that I think he is talking to someone online but I don’t know if it is serious or just friendly or what. The thing is I don’t like the idea of friendships with other women (whereas he tells me it is normal), so he might be just hiding it from me, I don’t know. But I decide to let it go and not bother him with my jealousy anymore because I have some work issues at the moment so I need to focus on that right now…
 
Thank you for your thoughts and this question about reception, Rhys. I am not a very well studied or sophisticated practitioner of horary. In my years of watching and accumulating information about it, I observed that reception is seen in two ways, the way you are suggesting and the way I am employing it here. And until the last year or so, I used reception as you suggest here in my very simple practice of horary.

Then I decided to observe results applying reception in this other way, as I have here. In addition, during this time I’ve also allowed myself to be more frree and imaginative in my storytelling of what I see i the chart. So I cant really isolate them, but for me looking back, it seems the way I am currently employing reception is seeming to fit pretty well what happens a good deal of the time…?? 😊
So I can’t say that how am applying reception is the proper way, only that it is my method I am evaluating at this time.

I always appreciate your generous posts, Rhys. Thank you for this one.
Frawley does it the way you are doing it for relationship issues, Ilene, so you're in good company! :)
 
Hi Rhys! Thank you very much for your opinion! I really appreciate you taking the time to have a look!
From my side and as an update I can only say so far that I think he is talking to someone online but I don’t know if it is serious or just friendly or what. The thing is I don’t like the idea of friendships with other women (whereas he tells me it is normal), so he might be just hiding it from me, I don’t know. But I decide to let it go and not bother him with my jealousy anymore because I have some work issues at the moment so I need to focus on that right now…
Any new developments on this, Eva? Enquiring minds need to know! ;-)
 
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