Don’t like my neighborhood because of certain people in it. I’ve been scared to walk around in it since 2019. Do things get better?

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MeganJoZodiac

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Remember Pisces and Jude from my thread about my friendship with Pisces? Well, they both live in my neighborhood. There is also another person, Louise. Louise and Pisces have always had a really close on-and-off friendship. I don’t like Louise and I will get into why here. Louise is a mean girl. She’s very judgmental and she likes to gossip about people. She especially likes doing this at the dinner table in her house. In freshman year of high school in late 2016 there was a boy named Killjoy who started laughing at the size of my butt as he was staring at it while I was walking through the space in between two desks. Louise was joining in because she had a crush on Killjoy as she was laughing too and smirking and then having the audacity to smile at me like nothing happened afterwards (she’s so fake, which is something even my older sister has agreed on). I’ve always struggled with my weight. Also in freshman year, I didn’t walk down the stairs fast enough for Louise’s liking, so Louise would step on my feet and try to push me down the stairs. She also tried pushing my older sister down the stairs.

Nobody would say anything to Louise because her mom is a kindergarten teacher and she was one of the favourite students of the school staff of the high school.

In summer 2019, Louise and her friend were gossiping about me at the drugstore near my house. My mom was at the drugstore too. I was writing an exam. They were following my mom around the store and giggling. They were making fun of how weird I was and Louise was whispering in her friends ear about me after my mom said hi to Louise and her friend asked who Louise was saying hi to. My mom then came home and started yelling at me, telling me that what happened at the drugstore was my fault and that if I went out more then that wouldn’t have happened. I already started disliking Louise in 2016 but 2019 was really the huge catalyst of my dislike of Louise. 2019 really solidified it for me. My mom telling me it was my fault made me dislike Louise even more than I already did.

I stopped seeing Louise after march 13, 2020 because of the pandemic and we went to different unis. She just graduated from her BSW [Bachelor’s of Social Work] undergrad program. However, she still lives in the neighborhood.

She has an older brother, Marco, who is actually friends with my older sister. My older sister likes Marco and they text even to this day. Sis and I share a hairdresser with Marco and Louise. We recently got our hair done and Marco was at the hairdresser not too long before we were. Sis reacted to the news and was a bit disappointed that she didn’t get to see Marco in person (I am at the same Uni as my sister and Marco went to a different Uni from Louise and us). She even asked about Marco and what he was up to and doing and our hairdresser was telling her about what Marco had been getting up to.

Louise has also been accused of racism. She had a friend in high school called Valencia who is black. Valencia and her had a falling out and according to what I heard from mutual classmates, Valencia was telling everyone in anthrolopology class about how Louise is racist.

Ever since 2019, I’ve never wanted to run into Louise again. I got my wish on march 13,2020 and I hope to keep it that way. My sister has been telling me that I need to walk around the neighborhood to control my weight because of my shoulder being in a sling at the moment. I don’t want to walk around the neighborhood and have a run in with Louise. If I am going to walk around, I want it to be in a different neighborhood. Will I ever run into Louise again? Do I ever end up moving neighborhoods or even cities any time in the near future? I do believe people can grow and change for the better, but still. Does Louise end up changing for the better and realizing how wrong she was in the past?
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I don’t know any of Louise’s birth information other than the fact that she was born in 2002 like me and I am like almost certain she is a cancer sun. This doesn’t make sense though because I thought cancer suns were supposed to be nice. I like two celebs who are cancer suns and they are both nice from what I can tell (I can post their names if you ask. It’s just that I’m not sure people know who they are but maybe people here do).
 
I also don’t go to mental health professionals because of previous bad experiences I had with them. Also I heard stories about people being denied job opportunities because of mental health conditions and needing to see professionals, so I don’t go.
 
All,

Advice given in an astrological thread must be based on astrology. While astrological advice can include practical, on the ground advice as well, if you leave out astrology altogether, it's not appropriate for this board. I've deleted a post that left out astrology altogether. Left the responses to that post because they add clarity to the situation. If you do not have a response based on astrology, do not post in an astrology thread.

@MeganJoZodiac your question is impossible to answer based on your birth chart. A birth chart is just a rough blueprint for your life drawn when you were born. It does not show your specific circumstances at any given time. It does not say, "In 2019-2024, MeganJoZodiac will be having a problem with L, who will/will not cease to be a problem for her."

And please keep in mind that it's against forum rules to give identifying information about others without their informed consent. If the names you've given are the real names of the people you're talking about, please replace them with pseudonyms or initials. If they are pseudonyms, you need to make that clear. (While two of the names you've mentioned are unlikely to be real names, if those are nicknames they go by in real life, also change them to pseudonyms.) It would also be against the rules to share L's birth information if you knew it, though if you did know her birth information, it would be within the rules to post her birth chart with name and birth details redacted.

You might get an answer through horary, but that requires a different kind of chart. If you want to go there, please read the horary guidelines first: https://www.astrologyweekly.com/for...-threads-on-all-horary-astrology-boards.8586/
 
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Hello MeganJoZodiac,

it seems that Jupiter's transits correspond to the three periods you mention: Moon by conjunction (2016), Pluto by conjunction (2019) and Moon by square (2020), etc. It is imperative for you to be recognized as valued, providing you with self-control and a certain personal conviction towards that which is difficult to achieve, with the need to cooperate in order to be so from what you love. So I think that your interest in a discipline (like astrology for example) is a good way to achieve this... Very soon you will have the significant transit of Jupiter to want to give yourself the means!

Ecliptique. :)
 

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