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N's Sun trine J's Sun:
Your basic life energies are in natural harmony with each other, making it easy to be supportive of
one another and feel at ease in each other's company.
N's Moon square J's Moon:
Your emotional needs are at odds with each other, as are the ways in which you both express your
emotions, making emotional communication difficult. The challenge is to allow enough space in the
relationship for both of you to get your individual needs met. That is the high road. Even if you have
learned to accommodate for these differences, it is still wise to allow some time apart on a daily
basis so you can drop into that place of just being yourself.
N's Mercury opposition J's Mercury:
You both have to give each other space to come to your decisions in your own way. Your minds
aren't always on the same page--what each of you thinks is important, and how you communicate
this isn't always well received by the other. There are millions of great relationships with Mercury at
odds with each other, but these are always people who have learned how to avoid judging each
other's perceptions. That is the high road.
N's Venus square J's Venus:
Your values and your tastes are at odds with each other. This often creates magnetism, but issues
concerning different values will likely have to be ironed out. You need to allow enough space in the
relationship to allow for your different tastes.
N's Saturn sextile J's Saturn:
You solve life's difficult situations in a supportive manner, allowing you to appreciate each other's
help and assistance. You are able to learn from life together, and thus can avoid making the same
mistakes over and over again.
N's North Node square fNAM's North Node:
Your life paths are at odds with each other. Your personal histories don't promote a natural
empathy for what you each have experienced in the past. Making assumptions about each other
based on your past experiences always leads to trouble. It is best to treat each other as if you were
both raised in separate foreign cultures. This will help you avoid all the troubles that come from
taking things for granted about each other that aren't part of the other person's experience at all.
N's Sun conjunct J's Moon:
This is one of the more favorable and fertile aspects for a relationship. N projects energy in the
same way J naturally responds--a perfect fit. I call this "cosmic glue," as there is something that just
feels right about the overall relationship.
J's Sun trine N's Neptune:
There is a natural intuitive flow between the two of you that is quite comfortable. You can be
drawn to understand the subtle realms together through meditation and spiritual practices. You
empower each other's faith in listening to the "still quiet voice within."
J's Sun trine N's Chiron:
You have natural empathy and support for each other's wounds, and in this gentleness, there is a
healing.
N's Sun opposition J's Pluto:
Power struggles are likely to erupt unless both of you stay vigilant for any attempts by the other to
control the relationship in any way. N can feel that J is always pulling strings trying to get something.
J can feel as if N is always challenging J's authority.
J's Sun opposition N's Jupiter:
You can encourage excessiveness in each other, one way or another. N may try to encourage J to
grow and expand in ways that are not appropriate. This is motivational for individuals who do not
want to settle for complacency and, instead, reach for more of what life has to offer, but watch out
for grasping.
N's Sun square J's Venus:
Your tastes and values can clash, and yet this is not entirely bad. It creates a strong sexual
attraction, though not the comfortable type; this type of fascination comes from that which is
different. The strong sexual attraction is favorable for getting the relationship going, but difficulties
can arise over differences in basic life values, making it difficult to live with each other on a
day-to-day basis.
J's Sun square N's Ascendant:
Tension exists in the way you each approach situations, and there can be a conflict of will unless
you allow for your differences. This combination is very favorable for natural magnetic attraction
between the two of you.
J's Moon conjunct N's Venus:
This aspect could be characterized as "sweet." It is easy to trust one another and romance is likely.
Simply spending time together is emotionally rewarding and even delightful. The personal side of life
is favored.
N's Moon trine J's Saturn:
You work well together on both the personal and professional fronts. J gives steadiness and
patience to the relationship. N adds emotional support to J's efforts in the world of responsibility.
J's Moon trine N's Neptune:
An empathic rapport between the two of you is likely. N helps J rise above petty issues, and J
helps N stay in touch with personal feelings.
J's Moon sextile N's Mars:
J feels safe and protected by N's strength. N feels emotionally supported in choices of action. You
rarely trigger each other's defenses.
N's Moon opposition J's Venus:
Emotional issues are quite tricky to resolve. When one of you expresses emotional needs, the other
person's feelings get hurt. Or you get your feelings hurt when the other person is simply having a
bad day. It is hard not to take the other person's emotional issues personally, but that is exactly
what can improve your relationship.
N's Moon opposition J's Jupiter:
You tend to encourage each other's indulgent behavior. There can be excessive emotional reactions
over small issues that get blown way out of proportion.
J's Moon opposition N's Pluto:
J can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand N's will. A healthy relationship can
develop only if N can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of intimidation.
Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the two of you is
strong.
J's Mercury trine N's North Node:
Your conversations and mental pursuits together naturally lead to each other's soul growth. You
can draw on each other for support and understanding in spiritual issues.
J's Mercury sextile N's Ascendant:
You have a natural understanding of each other and feel free to express yourselves to each other,
knowing you will be understood.
N's Mercury square J's Mars:
This aspect sets up arguments, because you tend to constantly trigger each other's defenses. The
way N thinks and makes decisions can irritate J, while N constantly feels badgered and provoked
by J's will. Learning how to avoid reacting to each other so quickly is a key. When you feel hostility
from each other, quiet it in yourself before you react, and you can avoid the knee-jerk arguments
that this aspect is known for.
N's Mercury square J's Neptune:
Your communication with each other can become clouded by confusion, mostly over what was not
said. Fact and fantasy blur. It may not be clear what was said and not said, what is true or not true;
these types of issues cause the confusion. Absolute honesty is required to avoid these pitfalls.
N's Venus sextile J's Ascendant:
This is a highly magnetic and sweet combination. N is very attracted to J's looks and style. It is
easy to love one another, and interests in the arts, entertainment, and culture are favored.
N's Venus square J's Jupiter:
It is not always easy to find ways to socialize together. What one of you considers a
growth-oriented activity, the other might not value at all. When you do get together, there is the risk
of encouraging each other's excessive behavior.
J's Venus square N's Pluto:
Karmic patterns of manipulating each other in love, either through guilt or intimidation, must be
dealt with in your relationship. Strong passion can exist between the two of you, but intimacy will
elude you until you are both able to let go of control and surrender to the relationship.
J's Mars conjunct N's Saturn:
N restricts and restrains the energy expression of J. This is typically frustrating for J who feels
blocked at every turn by N. This is best when N is a natural authority figure for J, such as coach,
parent, boss, or mentor, but even in these roles, trouble will erupt if there isn't mutual respect.
J's Mars trine N's Jupiter:
You bring out a confident and positive attitude in each other, allowing you to work and play well
together. You also travel well together and encourage each other to take part in the opportunities
life has to offer.
N's Mars trine J's Ascendant:
Your energies flow well together, making it easy to work or play together. You rarely trigger each
other's defenses, allowing you feel safe with each other. Knowing you can count on each other's
support in any conflict gives you courage.
J's Mars opposition N's Neptune:
This is a difficult aspect because of its insidious qualities. The source of problems and conflicts
between the two of you is never obvious. As lovers, you can bring out a fascination for eroticism in
each other, but you are not each other's best counsel in making important decisions, as this aspect
brings out the worst of the blind spot phenomenon of Neptune aspects. Deception on one or both
of your parts is also a possible negative manifestation of this energy.
N's Mars square J's Chiron:
J feels threatened by N's insensitivity, and feels unsafe in revealing vulnerabilities. N feels J to be
too sensitive, as if N has to walk on eggshells not to arouse sensitivities. And that is exactly the path
that works best--treat the sensitivities of J with sensitivity.
N's Jupiter trine J's Pluto:
You can support and take part in mutual interests in travel, education, philosophy, and mysticism.
You encourage each other to reach for goals that benefit society as well as yourselves.
J's Jupiter trine N's Uranus:
This motivates the two of you to look for growth beyond your relationship together. You support
each other's independent views and opinions, encouraging each other to constantly expand on your
experiences and learn from life. Travel, education, and spiritual growth are all favored.
N's Jupiter square J's Uranus:
Although this combination promotes a great deal of excitement, you too easily encourage each
other into rash and even reckless behavior. There is an unfounded feeling of luck that encourages
risk taking that can be disastrous. Arguments can flair up over political and religious issues that you
are not likely to see eye to eye on.
J's Jupiter square N's Pluto:
There is an unconscious pattern of competition between the two of you, and you can goad each
other into grander and grander displays of one-upmanship. There can be a natural mistrust of each
other's moral and ethical values in how you approach goals.
N's Jupiter square J's Chiron:
Your beliefs and philosophical views clash with each other concerning health and healing issues.
Although not with malicious indent, N can encourage directions that hinder, rather than help, J's
healing process.
N's Saturn trine J's Pluto:
You give each other strength and support for tackling large projects, and the two of you together
are very effective when dealing with administrative authority. You can count on each other during
crunch time, when your back is against the wall.
N's Saturn trine J's North Node:
You respect each other's path of soul growth and can help each other stay disciplined on the path.
You are able to be patient with each other and help each other get back on track when necessary.
J's Saturn trine N's Chiron:
There can be mutual interest in serious, scholarly studies and pursuits related to health and healing.
You have a steadying influence on each other's path of moving forward in the healing process, and
you are there for each other in times of need.
J's Saturn sextile N's Uranus:
This combination is favorable for working together to fulfill responsibilities of any kind. N
encourages J to be innovative in career considerations, while J helps ground N's ideas.
N's Saturn opposition J's Neptune:
You tend to feed each other's doubts and fears, eroding each other's strength. When a cycle of
doubt comes over the two of you, it feeds on itself, and soon everything can look bad. This misuse
of the imagination needs to be addressed as if it were a test. Discipline needs to be developed to
block these negative wanderings of the imagination.
J's Uranus conjunct N's Ascendant:
This aspect is liberating and electric, though somewhat unpredictable, in its impact. J encourages N
to break free from convention and become more individualistic in personal style. N encourages J to
act on original ideas.
N's Uranus conjunct J's North Node:
Soul growth gets put on fast-forward for the two of you. N is an evolutionary agent for J, bringing
ideas, experiences, and energy that accelerate the path of awakening. J helps N stay in touch with
the prevailing social/cultural climate.
J's Neptune trine N's Chiron:
You two have an intuitive awareness of the role of imagination in healing. You can work with each
other in the subtlest realms of spiritual and vibrational healing. You intuitively understand the power
of prayer in healing work with each other.
N's Pluto trine J's Ascendant:
You support the deepest type of spiritual transformation in each other and can be a source of
hidden strength for each other.
J's Pluto square N's North Node:
A karmic pattern of mistrust must be faced to avoid the undermining influence of this aspect. If
issues of mistrust exist, put them on the table and clear the issues before proceeding. Overcome the
tendency to let these issues putrefy beneath the surface, which can breed all types of ill feelings.
J's Pluto opposition N's Chiron:
With this aspect, it is as if you know secrets about each other that could be quite wounding if
publicly revealed. You are being tested with the right use of this power to wound each other. Will
you hold each other hostage with these secrets? Or will you pass the test and be able to be trusted
with each other's vulnerable secrets?
N's Ascendant opposition J's Chiron:
You have difficulty understanding each other's wounds and sensitivities, and thus tend to judge each
other as being indulgent and weak, where instead you could offer support and acceptance.
J's North Node opposition N's Chiron:
You carry the past-life karma of J having been a healing force in N's past life. You may become
interested in the healing traditions of ancient cultures, or awaken to healing abilities through your
relationship, as if you are bringing forward something that you knew from the past into this life.
Your basic life energies are in natural harmony with each other, making it easy to be supportive of
one another and feel at ease in each other's company.
N's Moon square J's Moon:
Your emotional needs are at odds with each other, as are the ways in which you both express your
emotions, making emotional communication difficult. The challenge is to allow enough space in the
relationship for both of you to get your individual needs met. That is the high road. Even if you have
learned to accommodate for these differences, it is still wise to allow some time apart on a daily
basis so you can drop into that place of just being yourself.
N's Mercury opposition J's Mercury:
You both have to give each other space to come to your decisions in your own way. Your minds
aren't always on the same page--what each of you thinks is important, and how you communicate
this isn't always well received by the other. There are millions of great relationships with Mercury at
odds with each other, but these are always people who have learned how to avoid judging each
other's perceptions. That is the high road.
N's Venus square J's Venus:
Your values and your tastes are at odds with each other. This often creates magnetism, but issues
concerning different values will likely have to be ironed out. You need to allow enough space in the
relationship to allow for your different tastes.
N's Saturn sextile J's Saturn:
You solve life's difficult situations in a supportive manner, allowing you to appreciate each other's
help and assistance. You are able to learn from life together, and thus can avoid making the same
mistakes over and over again.
N's North Node square fNAM's North Node:
Your life paths are at odds with each other. Your personal histories don't promote a natural
empathy for what you each have experienced in the past. Making assumptions about each other
based on your past experiences always leads to trouble. It is best to treat each other as if you were
both raised in separate foreign cultures. This will help you avoid all the troubles that come from
taking things for granted about each other that aren't part of the other person's experience at all.
N's Sun conjunct J's Moon:
This is one of the more favorable and fertile aspects for a relationship. N projects energy in the
same way J naturally responds--a perfect fit. I call this "cosmic glue," as there is something that just
feels right about the overall relationship.
J's Sun trine N's Neptune:
There is a natural intuitive flow between the two of you that is quite comfortable. You can be
drawn to understand the subtle realms together through meditation and spiritual practices. You
empower each other's faith in listening to the "still quiet voice within."
J's Sun trine N's Chiron:
You have natural empathy and support for each other's wounds, and in this gentleness, there is a
healing.
N's Sun opposition J's Pluto:
Power struggles are likely to erupt unless both of you stay vigilant for any attempts by the other to
control the relationship in any way. N can feel that J is always pulling strings trying to get something.
J can feel as if N is always challenging J's authority.
J's Sun opposition N's Jupiter:
You can encourage excessiveness in each other, one way or another. N may try to encourage J to
grow and expand in ways that are not appropriate. This is motivational for individuals who do not
want to settle for complacency and, instead, reach for more of what life has to offer, but watch out
for grasping.
N's Sun square J's Venus:
Your tastes and values can clash, and yet this is not entirely bad. It creates a strong sexual
attraction, though not the comfortable type; this type of fascination comes from that which is
different. The strong sexual attraction is favorable for getting the relationship going, but difficulties
can arise over differences in basic life values, making it difficult to live with each other on a
day-to-day basis.
J's Sun square N's Ascendant:
Tension exists in the way you each approach situations, and there can be a conflict of will unless
you allow for your differences. This combination is very favorable for natural magnetic attraction
between the two of you.
J's Moon conjunct N's Venus:
This aspect could be characterized as "sweet." It is easy to trust one another and romance is likely.
Simply spending time together is emotionally rewarding and even delightful. The personal side of life
is favored.
N's Moon trine J's Saturn:
You work well together on both the personal and professional fronts. J gives steadiness and
patience to the relationship. N adds emotional support to J's efforts in the world of responsibility.
J's Moon trine N's Neptune:
An empathic rapport between the two of you is likely. N helps J rise above petty issues, and J
helps N stay in touch with personal feelings.
J's Moon sextile N's Mars:
J feels safe and protected by N's strength. N feels emotionally supported in choices of action. You
rarely trigger each other's defenses.
N's Moon opposition J's Venus:
Emotional issues are quite tricky to resolve. When one of you expresses emotional needs, the other
person's feelings get hurt. Or you get your feelings hurt when the other person is simply having a
bad day. It is hard not to take the other person's emotional issues personally, but that is exactly
what can improve your relationship.
N's Moon opposition J's Jupiter:
You tend to encourage each other's indulgent behavior. There can be excessive emotional reactions
over small issues that get blown way out of proportion.
J's Moon opposition N's Pluto:
J can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand N's will. A healthy relationship can
develop only if N can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of intimidation.
Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the two of you is
strong.
J's Mercury trine N's North Node:
Your conversations and mental pursuits together naturally lead to each other's soul growth. You
can draw on each other for support and understanding in spiritual issues.
J's Mercury sextile N's Ascendant:
You have a natural understanding of each other and feel free to express yourselves to each other,
knowing you will be understood.
N's Mercury square J's Mars:
This aspect sets up arguments, because you tend to constantly trigger each other's defenses. The
way N thinks and makes decisions can irritate J, while N constantly feels badgered and provoked
by J's will. Learning how to avoid reacting to each other so quickly is a key. When you feel hostility
from each other, quiet it in yourself before you react, and you can avoid the knee-jerk arguments
that this aspect is known for.
N's Mercury square J's Neptune:
Your communication with each other can become clouded by confusion, mostly over what was not
said. Fact and fantasy blur. It may not be clear what was said and not said, what is true or not true;
these types of issues cause the confusion. Absolute honesty is required to avoid these pitfalls.
N's Venus sextile J's Ascendant:
This is a highly magnetic and sweet combination. N is very attracted to J's looks and style. It is
easy to love one another, and interests in the arts, entertainment, and culture are favored.
N's Venus square J's Jupiter:
It is not always easy to find ways to socialize together. What one of you considers a
growth-oriented activity, the other might not value at all. When you do get together, there is the risk
of encouraging each other's excessive behavior.
J's Venus square N's Pluto:
Karmic patterns of manipulating each other in love, either through guilt or intimidation, must be
dealt with in your relationship. Strong passion can exist between the two of you, but intimacy will
elude you until you are both able to let go of control and surrender to the relationship.
J's Mars conjunct N's Saturn:
N restricts and restrains the energy expression of J. This is typically frustrating for J who feels
blocked at every turn by N. This is best when N is a natural authority figure for J, such as coach,
parent, boss, or mentor, but even in these roles, trouble will erupt if there isn't mutual respect.
J's Mars trine N's Jupiter:
You bring out a confident and positive attitude in each other, allowing you to work and play well
together. You also travel well together and encourage each other to take part in the opportunities
life has to offer.
N's Mars trine J's Ascendant:
Your energies flow well together, making it easy to work or play together. You rarely trigger each
other's defenses, allowing you feel safe with each other. Knowing you can count on each other's
support in any conflict gives you courage.
J's Mars opposition N's Neptune:
This is a difficult aspect because of its insidious qualities. The source of problems and conflicts
between the two of you is never obvious. As lovers, you can bring out a fascination for eroticism in
each other, but you are not each other's best counsel in making important decisions, as this aspect
brings out the worst of the blind spot phenomenon of Neptune aspects. Deception on one or both
of your parts is also a possible negative manifestation of this energy.
N's Mars square J's Chiron:
J feels threatened by N's insensitivity, and feels unsafe in revealing vulnerabilities. N feels J to be
too sensitive, as if N has to walk on eggshells not to arouse sensitivities. And that is exactly the path
that works best--treat the sensitivities of J with sensitivity.
N's Jupiter trine J's Pluto:
You can support and take part in mutual interests in travel, education, philosophy, and mysticism.
You encourage each other to reach for goals that benefit society as well as yourselves.
J's Jupiter trine N's Uranus:
This motivates the two of you to look for growth beyond your relationship together. You support
each other's independent views and opinions, encouraging each other to constantly expand on your
experiences and learn from life. Travel, education, and spiritual growth are all favored.
N's Jupiter square J's Uranus:
Although this combination promotes a great deal of excitement, you too easily encourage each
other into rash and even reckless behavior. There is an unfounded feeling of luck that encourages
risk taking that can be disastrous. Arguments can flair up over political and religious issues that you
are not likely to see eye to eye on.
J's Jupiter square N's Pluto:
There is an unconscious pattern of competition between the two of you, and you can goad each
other into grander and grander displays of one-upmanship. There can be a natural mistrust of each
other's moral and ethical values in how you approach goals.
N's Jupiter square J's Chiron:
Your beliefs and philosophical views clash with each other concerning health and healing issues.
Although not with malicious indent, N can encourage directions that hinder, rather than help, J's
healing process.
N's Saturn trine J's Pluto:
You give each other strength and support for tackling large projects, and the two of you together
are very effective when dealing with administrative authority. You can count on each other during
crunch time, when your back is against the wall.
N's Saturn trine J's North Node:
You respect each other's path of soul growth and can help each other stay disciplined on the path.
You are able to be patient with each other and help each other get back on track when necessary.
J's Saturn trine N's Chiron:
There can be mutual interest in serious, scholarly studies and pursuits related to health and healing.
You have a steadying influence on each other's path of moving forward in the healing process, and
you are there for each other in times of need.
J's Saturn sextile N's Uranus:
This combination is favorable for working together to fulfill responsibilities of any kind. N
encourages J to be innovative in career considerations, while J helps ground N's ideas.
N's Saturn opposition J's Neptune:
You tend to feed each other's doubts and fears, eroding each other's strength. When a cycle of
doubt comes over the two of you, it feeds on itself, and soon everything can look bad. This misuse
of the imagination needs to be addressed as if it were a test. Discipline needs to be developed to
block these negative wanderings of the imagination.
J's Uranus conjunct N's Ascendant:
This aspect is liberating and electric, though somewhat unpredictable, in its impact. J encourages N
to break free from convention and become more individualistic in personal style. N encourages J to
act on original ideas.
N's Uranus conjunct J's North Node:
Soul growth gets put on fast-forward for the two of you. N is an evolutionary agent for J, bringing
ideas, experiences, and energy that accelerate the path of awakening. J helps N stay in touch with
the prevailing social/cultural climate.
J's Neptune trine N's Chiron:
You two have an intuitive awareness of the role of imagination in healing. You can work with each
other in the subtlest realms of spiritual and vibrational healing. You intuitively understand the power
of prayer in healing work with each other.
N's Pluto trine J's Ascendant:
You support the deepest type of spiritual transformation in each other and can be a source of
hidden strength for each other.
J's Pluto square N's North Node:
A karmic pattern of mistrust must be faced to avoid the undermining influence of this aspect. If
issues of mistrust exist, put them on the table and clear the issues before proceeding. Overcome the
tendency to let these issues putrefy beneath the surface, which can breed all types of ill feelings.
J's Pluto opposition N's Chiron:
With this aspect, it is as if you know secrets about each other that could be quite wounding if
publicly revealed. You are being tested with the right use of this power to wound each other. Will
you hold each other hostage with these secrets? Or will you pass the test and be able to be trusted
with each other's vulnerable secrets?
N's Ascendant opposition J's Chiron:
You have difficulty understanding each other's wounds and sensitivities, and thus tend to judge each
other as being indulgent and weak, where instead you could offer support and acceptance.
J's North Node opposition N's Chiron:
You carry the past-life karma of J having been a healing force in N's past life. You may become
interested in the healing traditions of ancient cultures, or awaken to healing abilities through your
relationship, as if you are bringing forward something that you knew from the past into this life.