I'm no professional but I'm studying Hellenistic/traditional and will jump on opportunities to practice my craft. In exchange it's nice for me to get some feedback and hear from you how this stuff has actually manifested in your life.
I will give my interpretations from a traditional view - with the "modern planets" included -, also to perhaps help you understand that the language of astrology can be interpreted through many different lenses. Remember that the symbols in your chart will speak differently/mean different things throughout your life. The archetypal karmic pattern of your chart stays the same but the way in which the karma manifests can vary a lot throughout a lifetime.
First things first, that Pluto on the Ascendant definitely stands out immediately. You've probably read all the cookbook interpretations at this point about "intensity" and "power struggles" and I would be surprised if you're not quite a "magnetic" person, able to magnetize the attention of others, both when you want it and when you don't.
The Sun in the 11th house speaks to your purpose and calling in life to gravitate towards finding "your tribe" and finding your place within it. Both Venus and Mercury are appearing as morning stars around the time of your birth and Mercury is only a few hours from his direct station. This makes the Venus/Mercury combination a highly potent aspect in your chart. Venus and Mercury in Leo make me think you're very artistically inclined, perhaps having good oratory skills; maybe you're good with languages, writing skills, singing, telling stories etc. Your voice is easily heard and you want to share what you know.
The ascendant ruler and the Sun both being in Virgo in the 11th house, with ruler Mercury in mutual reception with the Sun in the 10th house makes me think it's important for you to feel like you're walking your proper path, in the proper way, doing "what you're meant to be doing". Mars and Sun co-present in Virgo could make you overly critical at times and maybe you will experience fallouts and separations with certain friends or groups of friends throughout your life. Mars in Virgo could make you overly critical of your friends at times, but it could as well manifest as the opposite; that you get pushback and criticism from people who were supposed to be "on your side".
Mars also rules your 6th house, so it could import some strife into your social life through that avenue as well. Maybe you sometimes question the very nature of your friendships, what are friends for and who benefits and helps who? Maybe you fancy yourself the "alfa dog" with certain friends and see them as your "helpers"?
Mars can speak to our passions, what we care so much about we would "go to war for it". With Mars and Sun in 11th, I see this theme of "standing for something" to be an important part in your life. With all that Leo 10th house emphasis with both benefics and a strong Mercury (the ruler of the 11th) there, I think big chunks of your life will have to do with "joint efforts" with others, for better or worse. Also the exalted Moon in the 7th house speaks to there being some key characters - friends or partners - who will end up having a major impact on your life direction.
The T-Square you mention could definitely speak to some abrasive and less-than-smooth scenarios. Maybe sometimes you think you're being more helpful than you actually are, assuming that you know better, assuming that you see the truth of a given situation. You like to engage with others and be very "hands-on" socially (not necessarily physically, but in a Plutonian sense, wanting the full range of "social sensation"), but perhaps this sometimes leads you to being seen as "the odd one out", regardless of your sincere efforts to put the groups needs ahead of your own.
Maybe you sometimes overextend and overcompensate for some perceived lack in yourself. your ease of connecting maybe leaves you feeling drained when you don't notice how much of "yourself" gets wrapped up in something outside yourself.
I find it interesting that your Lot of Spirit is in Pisces in the 5th and the ruler is in aversion in the 10th, Jupiter in Leo. I think you're probably way more extroverted than some other Scorpio risings, but with Sun/Moon/Asc ruler all in Earth signs, I'm wondering if this is not a big source of your perceived problems. Not sure what the circumstances of you seeking therapy were, but I imagine - and do correct me if I'm wrong here - you end up placing unrealistic expectations on yourself and don't see all the good that you're already doing, always thinking you need to do even more. There's a big emphasis on 11th house themes in your chart, also the ruler of Lot of Fortune is 11th from the house of the Lot. I will circle back to where I started and again emphasize that "finding your tribe" and working together with them in a meaningful way seems to be a major karmic promise in your chart.
I would be interested to hear how your living situation and home life is going at the moment with Pluto passing over your natal Saturn. That Saturn will also station direct in your secondary progressed chart, speaking to some big shifts when it comes to your home environment, family ties, possibly even father-related shifts, or even some ancestral karma being worked out.
Let me know if some of this resonated or if you'd like clarification on something.
