Hoping for a talk with an ex

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roant14

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Context, he was/is in relationship with a new girl and I also have a chance to go abroad for a year. I think it’s a perfect time to move on and I also kinda soft blocked him everywhere. There are some big realisations from my side for a year, and it made me resent him. I wish for a talk, but I don’t know whether he is wiling and will initiate it or not. I’m also afraid to talk to him and later being gaslighted.

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He/Jup is in your /1st house, so there is still interest in you. Jup receives you as Merc by dignity, which means that there are still genuine caring for you. So I think he would be receptive to a conversation with you.
As to if he will initiate, I am not so sure, since Jup is weak in its detriment in Gemini. Both Merc and Moon separate from Jup, so the relationship is behind him.
Moon's next aspect is a square, does not suggest easy flow in the matter. My thoughts are that if you would really like to talk with him, there would quite likely be a warm reception. But I am doubting at this time that he will initiate a contact.
 
I would take Saturn as the new girlfriend. Saturn is ruled by him and the Sun - him as man - exalts her - note that it's conjunct through Antiscia so as far as this chart shows - they are together. Other testimony would be Merc exaltation of Saturn and Moon being ruled by it while also hating the Sun, the part of him that is very into Saturn as far as where concerned. His thoughts may still be geared towards you as it sits in the first house but both Merc, Venus and Moon are flowing away from Jupiter. Without adequete context this is as much as I can do. Neither one of your planet's directions indicate a reconciliation either - Venus - you as women - is in her detriment and dislikes the moon immensely, Merc so your thoughts is about to start beating up on Venus and dislikes the moon lot. Moon is about to stop disliking him as "Man" and renter back into his domicile, why every other planet is going to hate this change would need more context to puzzle out.
 
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