I mean is it possible that I might marry someone who has money?

[ChildOfVenus]

Ok the only reason why I said I would marry a man who is well off. Is because I know how men are. And it's bad enough that the man will cheat but at least I would get something out of it after being hurt. I'm not saying that I would intentionally just marry a man because I'm only after his money. That post I made before about wanting to have sexual relations with that guy was a bit much I will admit. But I was just being honest and I didn't think it was so bad because I wasn't saying that was the only thing I was after. I mean I do like the person and not only for sexual reasons. There are times when I am emotional but sometimes I'm not. Which is why I mentioned that you said that before.

Thanks for going through the trouble of looking for my post.

However, you sort of pulled a part of the post out of context, although, my post does indicate that you are not an all-emotional person. However, it no where suggests that you should marry someone (which, as I said, is a big, big decision) without emotionally feeling something for the person. And, in that post that you quoted below, it is a response on a thread where you desperately want to have sexual relations with someone, so the context is fairly different.

In fact, if you went back to the same thread you quoted from, you will find another post by me where I am even slightly sorry about what I read. Hopefully you will not act in such haste.

http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showpost.php?p=747618&postcount=148
"In all honesty, it does make me freak out a little that one should want just the physical part without emotional involvement/commitment."

All your decision, as you will be the one bearing the consequences in the end. Only thing one feels sorry about is that it the life of another person will be involved. To go in knowing that your intention might hurtful for someone else is quite heartless. And, one may say, that if men can cheat, why can't I want that. Well, then one is no better than those men that cheat. And, two wrongs never made a right!

I would suggest, instead of one day wanting sexual relations so badly with some guy; then, wanting to marry a well-off guy without emotional involvement, such emotional extremes (Ura-Plu) should be kept in check by you.

 

[aquarius7000]

Ok the only reason why I said I would marry a man who is well off. Is because I know how men are. And it's bad enough that the man will cheat but at least I would get something out of it after being hurt...

COV, That is a pure assumption of yours, and not a fact! So, there itself the story ends!
Going by such an assumption or such logic, and with all due respect, men could say that the only reason we cheat is because we know that women marry us only for our money and what we possess, so at least let us have our fun because we know the women marry us to rob us of what we possess.

 

[ChildOfVenus]

Maybe I would have a better chance if I dated outside of my race.

COV, That is a pure assumption of yours, and not a fact! So, there itself the story ends!
Going by such an assumption or such logic, and with all due respect, men could say that the only reason we cheat is because we know that women marry us only for our money and what we possess, so at least let us have our fun because we know the women marry us to rob us of what we possess.

 

[CapAquaPis]

CoV, don't marry anyone if your objective to marriage is money or financial matters, marriages are based on love and companionship with the other, and you don't need to be dependent on your partner (esp financially). On my natal chart, the sun and moon are 8th house, the house indicates inheritance from marriage or a female relative (I'm male but not affluent), but I depend on myself independently without needing anyone's money to help me out in life.

 

[ChildOfVenus]

I understand but I wouldn't marry anyone for financial reasons. Or because I want to depend on a wealthy man. My reason for wanting to marry a wealthy man is so at least I would get something when I find out about his infidelity. It has nothing to do with me wanting to depend on a rich man. I would rather make my own money.

CoV, don't marry anyone if your objective to marriage is money or financial matters, marriages are based on love and companionship with the other, and you don't need to be dependent on your partner (esp financially). On my natal chart, the sun and moon are 8th house, the house indicates inheritance from marriage or a female relative (I'm male but not affluent), but I depend on myself independently without needing anyone's money to help me out in life.

 

[sibylline]

Maybe I would have a better chance if I dated outside of my race.

Are all the cheating men you know of the same ethnic background?

There are cheating men and faithful men all around the globe.

 

[Osamenor]

All, I have deleted ANOTHER set of attacking posts and responses to them. Again, please be respectful, or do not post. If someone is attacking you, report it by private messaging the moderators instead of posting in response. Responding to attacks only fans the flames.

Respectfully,
Osamenor

 

[Osamenor]

After a discussion among moderators, we've decided to lock this thread. It has become, apparently, an invitation to attack the OP. As such, it serves no further purpose.

Locking,
Osamenor