DaniJade89
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I've been seeing my sweetheart for two years now, and one thing that popped up recently in conversation was his decision in not having children down the road. I'm in no rush to have kids, but I one day believe I will have them. And he is the first man I've ever thought to set up shop with.
We both share our Capricorn Ascendant within 4 degrees, giving us very similar house placements. In my natal, I have Saturn in the first house, so I've been very fearful about the idea of marriage and having children for the reason that my parents divorced and it was messy. But after my Saturn Return recently, that's all changed. He also shares this same Saturn in 1st and is only just hitting his Saturn Return. We've had a strikingly similar upbringing, so I believe he has and still does fear commitment.
In our synastry, he brings his Venus into my 4th, his Mercury into my 5th. I bring my Mars and Jupiter into his 4th. All signs pointing to starting a family. And in our composite, our Sun and Mars are conjunct the IC -- putting energy into building a life together. Which is why I'm so confused about this situation.
I'm genuinely hoping he changes his mind and am determined to give it more time to see what happens after his Saturn Return. I also know he can be a very decided/stubborn person; however, if I were to leave him over this, he would be utterly heartbroken. And I literally can't imagine anyone but him being my life partner and father of my children.
Do you guys see any aspects that might cause blockages in starting a family one day? Perhaps you all can see something I can't see.
We both share our Capricorn Ascendant within 4 degrees, giving us very similar house placements. In my natal, I have Saturn in the first house, so I've been very fearful about the idea of marriage and having children for the reason that my parents divorced and it was messy. But after my Saturn Return recently, that's all changed. He also shares this same Saturn in 1st and is only just hitting his Saturn Return. We've had a strikingly similar upbringing, so I believe he has and still does fear commitment.
In our synastry, he brings his Venus into my 4th, his Mercury into my 5th. I bring my Mars and Jupiter into his 4th. All signs pointing to starting a family. And in our composite, our Sun and Mars are conjunct the IC -- putting energy into building a life together. Which is why I'm so confused about this situation.
I'm genuinely hoping he changes his mind and am determined to give it more time to see what happens after his Saturn Return. I also know he can be a very decided/stubborn person; however, if I were to leave him over this, he would be utterly heartbroken. And I literally can't imagine anyone but him being my life partner and father of my children.
Do you guys see any aspects that might cause blockages in starting a family one day? Perhaps you all can see something I can't see.
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