ChildOfVenus
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He's a Cancer Mars and right now he currently has transit Mercury square Moon andHe/Jup is still interested in you and cares for you, being in your/1st house and also receiving you/Merc by dignity. But he is in a world of hurt, Jup in detriment and retrograde. And these two significators are disjunct, do not aspect, and so neither of you is able to regard or see the other's point of view.
Moon brings your/Merc's energy to unfavorable Mars by translation of light, with Mars made more unfavorable by being in its fall and also retrograde. And while to me, it doesn't look like it is over for sure, it does appear that it may be a hard time ahead between you? Not because he doesn't really like you a lot, but because the two of you cannot see or understand the other's point of view.
Yes, it's the same guy.Hi ChildofVenus,
Can I ask if this is the same guy, man that you asked about involving your birthday, a little while ago?
I think there may be something that you are not understanding about him and this situation. If the relationship matters to you, it may be worthwhile to reflect upon what that might be? What you are not understanding within or beyond his complaints about you?He's a Cancer Mars and right now he currently has transit Mercury square Moon and
transit Mars square Moon We were texting and he just kept bringing up all this old stuff that happened between us from months ago. Saying he couldn't get over certain things. Like how I flirted with a bartender which wasn't true (I went to the bar after we argued), how I mistreated him when he wanted me to be his girlfriend. Stuff that I couldn't even remember. I kept telling him I was sorry and that I wanted to be with him. But he just wasn't hearing me he could only express how I'd mistreated him. He just kept telling me he couldn't look past everything. That he couldn't trust me because of my past behavior. He said he still cared about me. He hasn't blocked my number. He was just expressing all of the emotions that he had been suppressing.
Thank you for your reply.Yes, it's the same guy.
We like it that way, in some ways to deal with the girlish demands offered to us (just had to reply)men have such boyish egos anyway don't they?
If I understand well, that would mean to him, that you did with him a very bad choice because he will be under your level, and yes, that is degrading. And if you said this to him with an air of aristrocracy ....? like capricorn can do so well .... ?I said other men were going to be upset with me for picking him
So he’s really done with me for good?Moon is exactly opposite Chiron on the 6th/12th cusps. Deep subconscious hurting.
Moon is about to square angry mars in your 3rd, ruling your 12th, intercepted ruler of his 12th.
Your 4th of endings, sun, about to conjunct volatile Pluto.
Mars in cancer can carry hurt very deeply.
As Ilene wrote, your significators jupiter and mercury are inconjunct and not agreeing at all.
This in spite of him, jupiter, being in the 1st house.
He does care, but that may not be enough this time.
Saturn conjunct Venus in his 5th house. Are you saying there is someone else?Thank you for your reply.
I brought it up because it seems your last chart already gave this opportunity, if that wasn't obvious.
To add to the great observations here above:
A Saturn ruled Mercury, bringing up the past over and over, is very much in line with what you wrote as well.
The Neptune and Chiron on the twelfth can have that same feel, Piscean energy not swimming far and deep enough to the real root of the problems.
Saturn conjunct Venus (12th house co-ruler) in his fifth is a pointer towards him seeking or holding on to a conjunction in seperation with a 'loved person to share his fun with'.
Good luck, I hope this pans out for the both of you!!
This isn't the problem.Are you saying there is someone else?
But that’s the thing though even after we got into it. He asked to see me which was the end of last month. But then he changed his mind. And now the last couple of days this is when he talks about how I did all these things to him bringing up the past. Saying how he can’t get over it. He said we may cross paths again in the future. But for now I should find someone else that’s better than him.This isn't the problem.
He's been very hurt.