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There is no planet in your 7th of partnerships but that does not necessarily mean no marriage. Have you had children or lost one? Neptune rules that area and is in 5th house. Could mean you are too idealistic, or fear being deceived or abandoned. What we project, we get. Not all of us are meant to have children or marry and we do preplan our lives when incarnating, to a large degree. I dont know if you have strong religious values but north node in 12th is asking you to focus in that area. Retreat, rehab, hospitals, institutions, even religious or church organisations. You have Venus in Leo in the 11th of groups,.clubs, societies, places where human rights are addressed. This can mean a romantic interest in that area.


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No, I've never been married and I've never had children. I've never been in a proper relationship. So I'm going to stay single. I'm very sad about that. Sometimes it is said that the map does not promise marriage, I wonder if that is the case with me because I am 27 years old.
 
Hello,
You may not be getting replies because the chart shown is VERY hard to read with all the lines to planets, asteroids, and points. You could do better if, possible, you produce a chart with planets, Chiron and the nodal axis only. As Claire suggested, Astrodienst provides a free chart service and is widely used, thus more familiar for the astrological eye :). Leave the chart above so those who work with other points can see their positions.

Is there any particular reason you have never been in a relationship? Is there any physical, mental, emotional impediment that holds you back from relating easily with other people? I share a particular aspect with you, and my problem when young was that the Virgo Ascendant didn't think I was attractive, a 'plain Jane', finding fault in every detail of my appearance and personality, I was my own enemy for quite a whileI
I have no planet in the 7th house of marriage, yet have been for a long time and have grown grandchildren!!!
 
This is my map that I got from astrodients. No, I don't have any illness, I work but I don't meet anyone who is suitable for me, so I started to think, isn't marriage in my destiny.
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This is my map that I got from astrodients. No, I don't have any illness, I work but I don't meet anyone who is suitable for me, so I started to think, isn't marriage in my destiny
 

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Here is my take on it from a whole sign house perspective.

First of all, your Lot of Eros is conjunct Pluto in the 4th in your chart. Is there a tendency to obsess over this topic? Especially as it relates to home/family? Is there some kind of pressure/expectation by your own family to get married and have kids? Jupiter rules Pluto in your chart, as well as the 7th house of marriage. Jupiter in Aquarius could point towards some fixed ideals you're reaching for, thinking that a partner should be this way or that. Jupiter is also opposed by your 12th house Venus; this does seem to speak to love being somewhat elusive or otherwise unattainable. I refer back to the earlier statements; is there a tendency to idealize and obsess over the topic of love/marriage? Do you "try too hard" or alternatively put too much pressure on yourself so you end up self-sabotaging the process?
With the Nodes conjunct your Asc/Dsc line, I could see further indication of this being a "all-or-nothing" kind of thing for you, where you fluctuate between extremes, not being able to just let a relationship develop naturally somehow. With the ruler of your ascendant in the 12th house maybe you are used to circumstances where you feel lonely. Maybe you also keep a lot of your thoughts to yourself, not sharing intimately and openly.

Some hopeful transits coming up, all the while you will be going into your Saturn return this year;
There's a lunar eclipse right on your ascendant and north node in March 2025. A big culmination as it comes to your character and psyche, maybe you're coming out of some kind of shell, adding something completely new to the avatar you're using to navigate this reality.
Jupiter trines your natal Jupiter in April 2025, maybe opening a window for something.
September 2025 until May 2026 Jupiter will make 3 passes over your Sun, who is the ruler of your 12th house Venus.
Then in June 2026 Uranus and Mars will oppose your Lot of Eros/Pluto. This could ignite something completely unexpected. It's quite intense though so be careful.
Then in September 2026 Jupiter will start to dance on your natal Venus; growth in love or at the very least, your social life. He will pass Venus the last time in June 2027. Look to this period with great hope.

I also looked at your Zodiacal Releasing periods from Lot of Eros and you will go into a peak period which is a loosening of the bond in September 2026 that lasts until September 2028. The period was foreshadowed July 2018 to August 2020, so look to something you were dealing with then to come back in some way, shape or form. This aligns so perfectly with Jupiter dancing on top of your natal Venus, while he's opposing his own natal position, I would be willing to bet at least 1 dollar, that something significant in the arena of love and relationships will happen here.

Good luck and don't obsess!
 
Hello and sorry for interrupt the post from @sehermmr, I guess that question is already answered and I wish you all the best @sehermmr, to find a love of your life. Unfortunate, I am not in a best situation in my love life as well, so when I read this post this reminds me of my situation. I will be 29 in a couple of days, I have never been in real relationships but only short hang outs, all of them ended fatal from me and always men break up with me... Also this time last year I had a 'possibility' with a guy which I know that he liked me but it never succeed actually we have been just friends and never became more. At the end of 2024 (December) I met a guy on dating app, but I am feeling like this connection stands in place, we have not been on a date, and also never meet in person, idk if it will ever happen. I am worried about my life, I am almost 29 no married, no children, no divorces (luckily), single and feeling confused sometimes. On the other hand I have good job,family, friends, good life a lot of things that I am proud and thankful of, but again I do not like to live forever alone, I want family, kids ...
Can someone tell me about my chart, is there any sign that my love life will get better and finally I will meet someone? (or someone I have already met). Also important to mention that in the last months of 2024 I felt a big changes, not in real life some big shift but in my mind, I am feeling like more open minded, out of comfort zone, avoiding overthinking...
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Here's your chart in Whole Sign.
To look for relationships and marriage, we look to Venus and the 7th house and its ruler.
You have a packed 7th house and Mercury/Mars/Uranus closely conjunct the descendant degree. I think this could give you a propensity for lots of ups and downs when it comes to relationships. Combine the changeability of Mercury with the passionate fiery Mars and the eccentricity of Uranus, then throw them all into the airy, idealistic and lofty sign of Aquarius with the ruler, Saturn in the 8th in Pisces; with all of that I get a picture of someone who will go through a number of karmic relationships in their life, all not necessarily romantic.

I think you could end up attracting a few "weirdos" into your orbit, and here "weirdo" is not meant in a negative sense, just people who are somehow outside "the norm". That trio of Mars/Mercury/Uranus are also just entering the beams of the Sun, making them invisible, but they're still highly angular; this suggests to me potential misunderstandings or assumptions in relationships which could end up being difficult. Mars/Mercury can be quite argumentative and in Aquarius kind of distant. Maybe you end up with people who are hard to reach emotionally and are more mental/intellectual.

With your own Sun in the 6th conjunct Neptune maybe you sometimes put yourself down? Think that you must do what the partner expects of you? Also with the Moon in Libra you're a natural diplomat but if you always give in to others it will end up hurting yourself. With Saturn ruling that 7th house stellium the theme of "personal boundaries" is highlighted more. You may need to learn to say "no" more often if you see red flags and not try to power through on the power of wishful thinking. Your Lot of Eros is trined by Neptune, reinforcing this idea of maybe lacking realistic boundaries when it comes to romance.

URANUS
Uranus is finishing up in your 10th house and will give one last dynamic square to your Venus in May of this year so keep your eyes open.

PLUTO
For the next 2½ years or so Pluto will be going hard on Mercury/Mars/Descendant in your 7th; this will surely bring up all the patterning of the past for you to take a cold hard look at. Where have you let others decide for you? How have the conflicts in the past shaped who you are? How much of that trauma are you willing to work through and release? Pluto is like a volcano that slowly terraforms whatever it touches, I would expect old beliefs, old ways of thinking and acting and old ways of communicating with partners to become a theme in the coming years. You might very well meet someone who will embody all of your past romantic life and they will serve as a mirror for you to understand how much of your entanglements with others end up shaping you.

JUPITER
September this year Jupiter will trine your natal Saturn, while Venus is transiting your 1st house, one indicator for a possible relationship development.
Then in January 2026 Jupiter trines Saturn again in retrograde motion, this time Venus together with the Sun in your 6th house.
Last trine from Jupiter to Saturn in May 2026, while Venus is trining herself in your chart from your 11th (house of friends and support).
Apart from these 3 passes to your Saturn, in June 2026, Jupiter and Venus will conjoin in your 12th house, exactly opposing your natal Neptune in the 6th. This doesn't necessarily need to be love related, but if it is, I'm just giving a heads up that it could be something completely delusional. Make sure to take care of yourself around this time and channel the Capricornian qualities of responsibility and planning into your daily life.

ECLIPSES
Eclipses are happening on your 2nd/8th axis, so money and resources could be an important topic in the coming 1½ years, but since the 8th has a lot to do with what we share with others, both materially but also emotionally, the themes of karmic lessons I was talking about earlier could be important when the eclipse season is active - March and September the coming 2 years. Also, on February 17th 2026 there's a solar eclipse on your natal Venus in Aquarius. This could be an indicator of a major new beginning when it comes to love/relationships. Then in August of that year, the nodes move into the Aquarius/Leo axis and you can definitely expect relationships to be an active topic in your life.

SOLAR RETURN
It's hard to say something very specific and I'm not so experienced with this technique, but this coming year has Mars in 12th trining Neptune in 8th with Moon in 11th also squaring that Neptune; echoing the themes I've talked about above about personal boundaries with others, understanding when to get involved with others and when it's best to just stay out of it for your own good. Where's the line between martyrdom and healthy self-sacrifice? And who is worthy of it?

ZODIACAL RELEASING FROM LOT OF EROS
You entered a L1 peak period in November last year, which will last all the way to 2038.
January 2028 until July 2030 will be a "focus period" and a "minor peak" period; it's an activation of your 7th house so I expect that time to be especially potent. Also all of October 2024 was a major peak on L3. Was there something happening?

I'm seeing some interesting stuff in that October-November period of 2024 when it comes to Zodiacal Releasing. Something definitely was going on there as there were overlapping period changes. When releasing from Lot of Spirit there was a foreshadowing period mixed in there which will get activated again from May 27th 2025 to June 26th 2025 when you have a loosening of the bond on L3 from Lot of Spirit. It's a Pisces period so 8th house and Saturn themes; karmic entanglements, money you share with others, investments, debts, inheritances. Something that was being defined in that area in October-November last year will be redefined and re-examined under the Saturnian influence of gravity and gravitas, finality and rigidity. Let me know how it goes.

Hope there's something interesting to ponder for you in here.
 

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Hello and sorry for interrupt the post from @sehermmr, I guess that question is already answered and I wish you all the best @sehermmr, to find a love of your life. Unfortunate, I am not in a best situation in my love life as well, so when I read this post this reminds me of my situation. I will be 29 in a couple of days, I have never been in real relationships but only short hang outs, all of them ended fatal from me and always men break up with me... Also this time last year I had a 'possibility' with a guy which I know that he liked me but it never succeed actually we have been just friends and never became more. At the end of 2024 (December) I met a guy on dating app, but I am feeling like this connection stands in place, we have not been on a date, and also never meet in person, idk if it will ever happen. I am worried about my life, I am almost 29 no married, no children, no divorces (luckily), single and feeling confused sometimes. On the other hand I have good job,family, friends, good life a lot of things that I am proud and thankful of, but again I do not like to live forever alone, I want family, kids ...
Can someone tell me about my chart, is there any sign that my love life will get better and finally I will meet someone? (or someone I have already met). Also important to mention that in the last months of 2024 I felt a big changes, not in real life some big shift but in my mind, I am feeling like more open minded, out of comfort zone, avoiding overthinking...
Here is my chart:
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Hello Tatiana,
You have given the date and time of your birth but the place of birth has not been given. Please write the name of the place as well so that I can draw a vedic chart for analysis.
 
Hello and sorry for interrupt the post from @sehermmr, I guess that question is already answered and I wish you all the best @sehermmr, to find a love of your life. Unfortunate, I am not in a best situation in my love life as well, so when I read this post this reminds me of my situation. I will be 29 in a couple of days, I have never been in real relationships but only short hang outs, all of them ended fatal from me and always men break up with me... Also this time last year I had a 'possibility' with a guy which I know that he liked me but it never succeed actually we have been just friends and never became more. At the end of 2024 (December) I met a guy on dating app, but I am feeling like this connection stands in place, we have not been on a date, and also never meet in person, idk if it will ever happen. I am worried about my life, I am almost 29 no married, no children, no divorces (luckily), single and feeling confused sometimes. On the other hand I have good job,family, friends, good life a lot of things that I am proud and thankful of, but again I do not like to live forever alone, I want family, kids ...
Can someone tell me about my chart, is there any sign that my love life will get better and finally I will meet someone? (or someone I have already met). Also important to mention that in the last months of 2024 I felt a big changes, not in real life some big shift but in my mind, I am feeling like more open minded, out of comfort zone, avoiding overthinking...
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Hello Tatiana,

I have made your birth chart. I have used 12/Jan/1996, 1725 hours, Bitola, North Macedonia.

The North Node of the Moon is ruling your life these days. This will continue till 22/February/2028. The Sun is also participating in governing your life these days till August end/2025. It is badly placed from the house of relationships so since September 2024 you are feeling that relationships are no longer satisfactory. This will improve after August this year.

You will have a happy relationship after August. You will marry a little late in 2027-28.
 
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