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rivern

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There is a man in my life but we are not couple, when I try to leave him he doesn't let me, he is always around me and when I want things to be serious he runs away without talking openly. My guess about why he does this is that he is not in the same status as me about career and he is someone who cares a lot about these things. He is very proud. He also hinted that we had our first problem because I was restricting him. But he also hinted that he has problems with careers and that he will not take a step towards marriage and a serious relationship for about three more years. I want to believe all this because I love him, but sometimes I wonder if he doesn't love me or if he has another woman in his life or in his mind. We live in a small place and we have a common environment. So I don't think there is another woman but still anything can happen in this life. That's why I asked if he has someone else in his mind or in his life. Please comment 🙏
 

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I forgot to tell you. He is currently studying at university so that he can have the same profession as me. And it will take a few more years with an internship.
 
Due to the Cancer rising and you/Moon opposing Neptune, this chart better depicts your emotional state in this situation.
This could be a fear of loneliness or being alone that has kept you in this relationship for far longer than necessary, despite the fact that it is unhealthy for you.

Although you say this There is a man in my life but we are not couple, when I try to leave him he doesn't let me, he is always around me and when I want things to be serious he runs away without talking openly you continue to allow him to return despite the fact that he is not providing you with anything serious.

You need to set some boundaries, acknowledge your needs, and prioritize your well-being.
 
Actually, I didn't let him come back, I just gave him time as he wanted, I thought we would get to know each other better in the process. But when he realized that my patience was over and that I wasn't calling and asking for him anymore, he started to put effort, but still not openly. For example, he is not normally someone who organizes celebrations or parties, but we have a large group of friends and I learned from a friend that he put a lot of effort and made plans for my birthday. Normally he is someone who only comes when invited, never takes an active part. Or he doesn't know what day people's birthday is. Even if he tries for me, he does it secretly from me. Actually, I don't think I have a fear of being alone. I've never had a relationship in my life. I have never looked for a relationship. I have never tried to meet and flirt with anyone. By the way, what do you think about my main question? Thank you for your comment.💖

By the way, I only need him, I dont think I have any other needs, maybe the big problem is this.
 
He is Sa un Pisces, peregrine, retrograde, a bit lost, without a clear direction, dreamy, maybe even confused. Sa like this reminds me of the tarot cards 7 of cups combined with the Moon.

I think there might be someone else, as he seems to be quite interested in Venus. Ve rules his 5th house and resides in his 12th, radix 6th, house. There was a contact between them, a tense one, a square, a couple weeks prior. As Sa sits in his 3rd house, maybe there was some kind of online communication or during some kind of a trip.

Could you give us an update on this one later?

I do hope I'm wrong.
 
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