Everything which is important to me, is being taken away from me and I am unable to have any control over it. My mental health has now started to degrade. I am unable to see any way out.
I am severely unhappy with my current job, I have now 10 years of work experience after completing graduate school but they want to keep me as an entry level employee. Kept giving me false promises and keep asking me to have patience and to wait. Some co workers have an easy way out and they easily get promoted/raises even when they spend most of the day gossiping or flirting with the bosses.
I am also stuck here due to immigration. They started my immigration application in Jan 2023 but last week told me (and a few other folks) that due to a clerical error, they missed a deadline and won't be able to proceed further. I have now limited time to stay on work visa and I can't switch to another job either. They have made another promise to help us out in this immigration problem but my confidence in them is pretty low. It would be on the government if they would accept/reject new immigration application.
Being severely stuck at my current work place is impacting my mental health a lot. I try not to but it still hurts me incredibly that why I deserve so low - how did I end in this terrible situation. One dash of positivity tells me to work harder and switch jobs etc but due to strict visa rules, I really cannot change jobs either.
I did fall in love with someone at the workplace but he broke up with me in December - he now engages himself in conversations with other women in the office and I try a lot to not have it impact me, yet it does. His reason to let me go was that I am too demanding romantically and I did not appreciate when he gave me his bare minimum time/efforts.
My family lives in my home country and my mother and brother fight all the time - they call me and tell me how the other person is wrong and how they suffer in life and wait for it to end.
I was happy in 2023. but 2024 was equally unhappy and now since last 2 months, I am getting shattered on my hopes and dreams every day. I have no one to talk to but posting here. Mods can delete it. If one of you sees any hope or anything positive in my life which could bring some peace, please let me know.
I am severely unhappy with my current job, I have now 10 years of work experience after completing graduate school but they want to keep me as an entry level employee. Kept giving me false promises and keep asking me to have patience and to wait. Some co workers have an easy way out and they easily get promoted/raises even when they spend most of the day gossiping or flirting with the bosses.
I am also stuck here due to immigration. They started my immigration application in Jan 2023 but last week told me (and a few other folks) that due to a clerical error, they missed a deadline and won't be able to proceed further. I have now limited time to stay on work visa and I can't switch to another job either. They have made another promise to help us out in this immigration problem but my confidence in them is pretty low. It would be on the government if they would accept/reject new immigration application.
Being severely stuck at my current work place is impacting my mental health a lot. I try not to but it still hurts me incredibly that why I deserve so low - how did I end in this terrible situation. One dash of positivity tells me to work harder and switch jobs etc but due to strict visa rules, I really cannot change jobs either.
I did fall in love with someone at the workplace but he broke up with me in December - he now engages himself in conversations with other women in the office and I try a lot to not have it impact me, yet it does. His reason to let me go was that I am too demanding romantically and I did not appreciate when he gave me his bare minimum time/efforts.
My family lives in my home country and my mother and brother fight all the time - they call me and tell me how the other person is wrong and how they suffer in life and wait for it to end.
I was happy in 2023. but 2024 was equally unhappy and now since last 2 months, I am getting shattered on my hopes and dreams every day. I have no one to talk to but posting here. Mods can delete it. If one of you sees any hope or anything positive in my life which could bring some peace, please let me know.