hi im blue so im gonna say my for blue placements. i also wanna say thank you for this detailed response and im so sorry it took me so long to reply. its been a rough few weeks(sun and pluto conjunction on my moon was not kind to me)
i can totally see the conflict of interests between us at times. but we also theoretically want a lot of the same things, just behaviors don’t always line up. if that makes sense. as for the aspect between my sun mercury and her pluto, i absolutely notice that i psychoanalyze her a lot(we’re both in the psychology field) and i wonder if that has to do more with my natal placements because i do that often and for lots of people i meet but with her i definitely feel more invested in my findings. it’s definitely a weaker influence but i can absolutely see how it manifests. and she definitely gets a little defensive towards some of my findings so it’s interesting you noticed that astrologically. i wonder if that could contribute to the sun saturn aspect of feeling controlled as well.
thank you again for this. absolutely it’s very very new so we haven’t gone through much conflict lately but you’re on the nose about me being more proactive and her more intellectual. i definitely have a daydreaming tendency


im curious to see if this spark becomes anything.