possible controlling or karmic dynamic in synastry?

[makeupch1c3]

He’s a scorpio sun, sag moon, libra venus, cap mars, sag pluto, taurus saturn & jupiter, sag chiron, sag lilith and leo NN.
I’m a taurus sun, aries moon, aries venus, sag mars, sag pluto, gemini saturn & jupiter, sag chiron, aquarius lilith and cancer NN.

Our aspects:
-His NN square my sun
-His NN square my asc
-His jupiter conj my sun, moon, mercury & asc
-My moon square his mars
-My mars square his venus
-Our venus opposite each other
-His pluto trine my venus
-My jupiter opposite his pluto
-His venus trine my saturn
-His moon conj my pluto
-My lilith square his sun & saturn
-His saturn conj my asc
-His chiron conj my pluto
-His lilith trine my moon & conj my pluto

*Note his NN is in my 4H and his sun is in my 7H and we have a kid together.

Thoughts?