Hello,
Finally i managed to get to know date of birth of my bosses. He was born 23.03.1975, scorpio supervisor 24.10.1957 and i was born 21.03.1990.
Could you tell me if our professional relationship will be ok? I have been working in this group for the last 1.5 months. He is Aries Sun Leo Moon. He triggers something inside me and i dont know if its an attraction, lack of communication skills or lack of confidence from my side? Maybe everything ?
He is very good figure in profession, known and popular. She is Sun Scorpio Moon Scorpio. But generally when it comes to communication i think they both are chaotic and not very communicative, change their mind very often.He is quicker than her.
He screams and is very assertive, gets nervous easily. I also do the same but in private life- so his behaviour doesnt surprise me at all and i dont consider it mobbing.
Recently I had a blockage in front of him with communication skills, i didnt feel well when i communicated with him- i felt generall stress and some bourden in my chest. Probably he was aware of it- at the beginning wanted to be nice and soft but then when i didnt change fast enough he started to ignore me as this would be too slow..
Once i saw he observed me as a „woman a man wants” and it kinda caught me off guard. I came to this job only for new work experiences and money. I did not want to flirt.
Right now he observes me and when he is around he is calm and its me who gets nervous- not as it was 1 month ago. When he saw me first time he was very nervous and pushy- i was calm bc stressed. Probably i guess he was testing my boundaries.
We had a misscomunication several times towards tasks and he told me to be more open and had a better communication with him. So i started to call him and inform him more of my job and tasks. But im not sure how i can communicate with him because with my Mercury in Aries i can be very straight forward and sometimes sound offensive. Idk if its a proper way to talk at work but he didnt tell me anything. Once on a phone call he got offensive towards me so i did the same and he got quiet. But then started being nice and said : bye bye . It was a very fast change as i do in my behaviour when i myself am angry.
Scorpio is also very professional but she gets tired very fast because of her age ( she tells this) and she is not as quick as him. She tells me she is very chaotic and clumsy. She cant finish tasks..for me she is not a “traditional” Scorpio, i feel very comfortable around her- she is soft and warm. I feel better around her than around him. He triggers something inside me and idk what it is.
I feel blockages and i feel pressured when he is around. I feel like at school… im not laid back and very confident. Especially when he tells me that i do something wrong. Generally then he is nice to me even more as to the Scorpio ( they are on the same level) but i feel his emotions very well and its very difficult for me. How to change it?
Finally i managed to get to know date of birth of my bosses. He was born 23.03.1975, scorpio supervisor 24.10.1957 and i was born 21.03.1990.
Could you tell me if our professional relationship will be ok? I have been working in this group for the last 1.5 months. He is Aries Sun Leo Moon. He triggers something inside me and i dont know if its an attraction, lack of communication skills or lack of confidence from my side? Maybe everything ?
He is very good figure in profession, known and popular. She is Sun Scorpio Moon Scorpio. But generally when it comes to communication i think they both are chaotic and not very communicative, change their mind very often.He is quicker than her.
He screams and is very assertive, gets nervous easily. I also do the same but in private life- so his behaviour doesnt surprise me at all and i dont consider it mobbing.
Recently I had a blockage in front of him with communication skills, i didnt feel well when i communicated with him- i felt generall stress and some bourden in my chest. Probably he was aware of it- at the beginning wanted to be nice and soft but then when i didnt change fast enough he started to ignore me as this would be too slow..
Once i saw he observed me as a „woman a man wants” and it kinda caught me off guard. I came to this job only for new work experiences and money. I did not want to flirt.
Right now he observes me and when he is around he is calm and its me who gets nervous- not as it was 1 month ago. When he saw me first time he was very nervous and pushy- i was calm bc stressed. Probably i guess he was testing my boundaries.
We had a misscomunication several times towards tasks and he told me to be more open and had a better communication with him. So i started to call him and inform him more of my job and tasks. But im not sure how i can communicate with him because with my Mercury in Aries i can be very straight forward and sometimes sound offensive. Idk if its a proper way to talk at work but he didnt tell me anything. Once on a phone call he got offensive towards me so i did the same and he got quiet. But then started being nice and said : bye bye . It was a very fast change as i do in my behaviour when i myself am angry.
Scorpio is also very professional but she gets tired very fast because of her age ( she tells this) and she is not as quick as him. She tells me she is very chaotic and clumsy. She cant finish tasks..for me she is not a “traditional” Scorpio, i feel very comfortable around her- she is soft and warm. I feel better around her than around him. He triggers something inside me and idk what it is.
I feel blockages and i feel pressured when he is around. I feel like at school… im not laid back and very confident. Especially when he tells me that i do something wrong. Generally then he is nice to me even more as to the Scorpio ( they are on the same level) but i feel his emotions very well and its very difficult for me. How to change it?
