unlucky? saturn in 7th house, sun square saturn

[amara]

hi! I feel so lost! I'm having huge problems with my love life, it's so hard for me to find a guy I like, and then when I finally do he either lives in other country or he is married or in a relationship or something like that! It is so hard for me to meet the right guy, and I'm not bad looking, uneducated, etc.
Is that because of saturn in 7th house?
i also have sun square saturn
I would very much appreciate if you could help

 

[muchacho]

hi! I feel so lost! I'm having huge problems with my love life, it's so hard for me to find a guy I like, and then when I finally do he either lives in other country or he is married or in a relationship or something like that! It is so hard for me to meet the right guy, and I'm not bad looking, uneducated, etc.
Is that because of saturn in 7th house?
i also have sun square saturn
I would very much appreciate if you could help

Try Venus in the 6th.

 

[amara]

Hi, thank you! What do you mean by that? I only know basic stuff.

 

[deepminde]

Do not worry, you only about 25 years old. I think per 10 years you will find someone special.

 

[muchacho]

Hi, thank you! What do you mean by that? I only know basic stuff.

Venus is about how you show your affection. Venus is the 6th is similar to Venus in Virgo, i.e. not natural, very picky, realistic to a fault and very insecure and afraid of making mistakes and so mostly overthinking everything which usually isn't conducive to forming love relationships where trust, ease, idealism and openness are the key ingredients. But don't worry, with Venus in Libra it probably won't be that severe.

 

[tobby]

The problem is not the house placement of Venus but the exact square with Mars. This is an aspect which generates a peculiar energy since it indicates that there was some sort of cautiousness or anxiety towards sexual expression in the family/environment of the native during his formative years which instilled some kind of psychological cautiousness towards sexuality in general. The placement of Saturn in the Seventh house squaring the Sun is of course an important factor also. With an 8 degree orb it's not very tight and the Sun gets support from Uranus, Neptune and Chiron as well, however the harshness of the square with Saturn will still be felt.

I would recommend you to take a look at the book "Astrological Insights into Personality" by Betty Lundsted in order to understand the nature of those aspects and how they can be used creatively.

 

[kamn]

your saturn is actually in 8th house, and gives hardship to 8th house affairs. Your 7th lord Mars in capricorn exalted in 9th huose indicated some success in partnerships. venus in own sign. though in 6th house could mean some problems, but since it is in own sign, it is okay. Problem might be that Venus is with Ketu(south node) which gives dissatisfaction with partnerships - people with this combinations often seek for their perfect one, the soul mate, but rarely find it in reality. jupiter is good, as an indicator of taste in men, but debilitated in navamsa (in capricorn navamsa), which may give problems in relating to men.
venus square mars gives more sexuality and i consider it a positive trait.

My guess is that, there are good guys around you, but you don't see them. Maybie when the right guy comes, you kind of become blind.

 

[Enxhi]

Saturn gives late relationship with others.Maybe after 29 years old.Sun square saturn I think you are hard in choosing the right person for yourself,or you may have problem with your father.