What’s with all these Scorpios?

[Lilyiris]

So, I attract in a lot of Scorpio energy - from a lot of women around me and sometimes men. I currently work with three Scorpio moons and a Taurus moon; I literally have such a hard time. I am not my best self - I feel like they are always conspiring with each other, purposely leaving me or others out and throwing each other or others under the bus. They also have their own little group chat without me, now one or two of our other coworkers aren’t in their either; in the beginning we sort of would get each other drinks etc and now with their little group what they only do it for each other; but if I ask the girls who are left out the others will sort of wonder what the hell or kinda smile. Now, this is a bit of high school drama I admit; sometimes I react in an equally or worse childlike way and I just don’t like it - but it really makes me angry, the secretive energy, the sneaky behind others backs behavior. Sometimes I love Scorpio placements depending, I’ve had a couple good friends with Scorpio venuses opposite my Venus - although those friendships didn’t end well. But I feel like they hate me - it’s like they don’t want to include me, especially these girls I work with. They all have nice aspects from their venuses to my moon but I just don’t know what this underlying tension is. I don’t understand what’s going on within my own energy and why it gets so heightened around them… I’ve also had like Scorpio Venus/mars men interested in me before and I’m like why?! When there is clearly like a Scorpio moon woman around that they also like and can understand. My Sun/moon just has such a hard time with like my mars/pluto/venus/NN energy. Does anyone have some advice or insight? I’ll attach my chart - I’m starting to think there is something severely wrong with me

 

[waybread]

This is hard to answer. It may not be a Scorpio placement per se, but something else going on between their charts and your chart; i. e., the synastry. I don't know if it's possible to get their astrological data (let alone their consent to use it,) but that is probably the best (or only way) to answer your question.

You mention having good relationships with Scorpio people previously, so I don 't think it's Scorpio as a sign. Depending on the aspects, for example, Scorpio and Pisces rising are generally compatible signs.

For now, probably the best thing is just to stay pleasant, but at arm's length from these co-workers, and not get involved in their games-playing.

 

[Ecliptique]

Hello Lilyiris,

I think you can work on the level of the ideas you adhere to especially if there is a lack, a blockage or a difficulty of expression... On the other hand, accept more that you can be wrong , make a mistake yourself. Know how to achieve what you want to do and be more flexible about your ideas. When you are appreciated it leads you to have personal convictions and to be the best you can be in relation to your thoughts and ideas. The other is interested in you for your ideas...

During the first half of 2025, you will have the significant transit of Venus. This period can be compared to that of 2017 at about the same era. In 2017, this could lead you to value yourself in relation to a goal allowing you to accomplish yourself, and in 2025, you could tend to develop the fact of making yourself appreciated, which would awaken your spirit and would be the object of your concern...

You can always make a return.

Ecliptique.

 

[Humanitarian]

Maybe you possess a lot of fiery energy that you don't know of? I saw the Pallas Athena - Excalibur exact conjunction in your chart in Cancer (the sign makes it a little bit more balanced and mitigated though). And Destiny conjuncting fixed star Scheat is something worthy to be up here, as maybe your love/friend life isn't a good one and you should focus on more spiritual matters rather than worldly matters, to help you pass the time you are left out within your fellow group...

 

[Lilyiris]

Thank you for your responses everyone! I think you are all on point ~ I think my greatest worry is not being able to control my reactions, and leaving my triggers exposed. Of course I am the person with the triggers so I should be working on those. It’s just so odd that the energy itself when that group is together is so triggering for me.

 

[Ecliptique]

Thank you for your responses everyone! I think you are all on point ~ I think my greatest worry is not being able to control my reactions, and leaving my triggers exposed. Of course I am the person with the triggers so I should be working on those. It’s just so odd that the energy itself when that group is together is so triggering for me.

Hello Lilyiris,

What seems important to me is your interpretation of the certainty in the way you feel appreciated and loved, that you want to evolve, which leads you to want to keep control of what seems rather inaccessible to you. There is something constant in yourself naturally tending towards your thoughts, with a need to be recognized in relation to your goals in order to get the most out of what you aspire to in life. This contributes to wanting to take on the challenge of being loved. Perhaps you now want to realize some of your aspirations by wanting to get the most out of them? There is probably the need to achieve goals that you really set for yourself...

Ecliptique.

 

[wan]

I tend to attract as well as be attracted to Saturnian men, such as Capricorns and Libras. And I have Saturn right on my descendant. Soooo spooky.

 

[Lilyiris]

Hello Lilyiris,

What seems important to me is your interpretation of the certainty in the way you feel appreciated and loved, that you want to evolve, which leads you to want to keep control of what seems rather inaccessible to you. There is something constant in yourself naturally tending towards your thoughts, with a need to be recognized in relation to your goals in order to get the most out of what you aspire to in life. This contributes to wanting to take on the challenge of being loved. Perhaps you now want to realize some of your aspirations by wanting to get the most out of them? There is probably the need to achieve goals that you really set for yourself...

Ecliptique.

I don’t quite understand what you mean could you elaborate a bit?

 

[Lilyiris]

I tend to attract as well as be attracted to Saturnian men, such as Capricorns and Libras. And I have Saturn right on my descendant. Soooo spooky.

But that makes sense right! Because of Saturn on your descendent - I’m really not Plutonian at all - so I don’t really get it

 

[Ecliptique]

Hello Lilyiris,

I would say that to begin with you must cultivate a favorable certainty of the fact that you are appreciated. This is what must lead you not to be sidelined. You must know what you really want and not make mistakes yourself. This will promote the relationship with others and the fact of being appreciated while having an impact on you that can then become more and more favorable. This will lead you to keep control over what is difficult. A will well directed in relation to your ideas will help you in achieving your goals...

Ecliptique.