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UGH. I just recently "hooked up" with a friend. I THOUGHT that things were pretty good, considering his long crush on me, and his ways of luring me into bed. I thought things were sweet and perfect. We spoke (texted) until I invited him over and haven't heard from him since...

So, what's up? I ask in panic. More specficially, "how short lived is this relationship/where is it going???"

Sad.

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I am... Jupiter, he is Mercury. Well, it seems like it's "too early to tell" according to the ascendant. More clues though.
I am given all the following rulers in a male-female relationship: Jupiter, Moon, and venus.
He of course is: Mercury, Sun, and Mars.

Basically, it kind of accurately described it: Mars separating from Venus by 3 deg... our last rendezvous was 3 days ago. Mars makes no aspects, but the sun does. The sun will apply a trine to Jupiter in 5 deg. I am thinking it's in days, and it will be Saturday, party day that we might meet. Hooray. BUT jupiter applies to saturn first. :,( Mercury and venus are in a mutual reception together. The moon, hanging by a strand in Aries (mar's territory) is anxious and can't wait to get to taurus (stability...) being on a critical degree. Not to mention, the moon is changing to taurus and will conjunct him in 2 days.

North Node, ruled by Saturn, in his radix 5th house. Saturn, in my 7th house.

Well, what is going to happen afterwards?
 
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I also asked again about 20 minutes later with a more definite question: does he still want me...? If that might help anyone in terms of specificity...
 
Hi,
Firstly the ascendant IS too early to read the chart.
Secondly Saturn who is NOT a significator here is in h7-another consideration against judgement.
The moon is at 29 degrees of Aries, about to move into Venus's sign and it will conjunct his ruler Mercury shortly.
HOWEVER<
H4 the house of the outcome is ruled by Mercury, him.Mercury has just gone direct in venus's sign and will sextile your ruler from there, but a sextile is pretty weak, especially as venus herself applies a square to Saturn, and venus is in Mercury's sign, so about him.Also Venus applies a square to *your* ruler, Jupiter.

Your invitation to him is ruled by Venus, and Venus is separating from Mars so that looks like a no go to me.

BTW< you can only ask the question once according to standard horary practice.

I think you'll hear from him again, but not necessarily what you want to hear.I may be wrong because Saturn is in h7-so anyone answering this runs the risk of getting it wrong too.
Sorry
Lilly
 
Well, this is what happened.

After this chart, he called me, and I waited until the next day to answer. That day, we met each other at a party, where we went to his house. We always had great chemistry and compatibility (our asc are eachother's descendant) and long conversations (air moons). Things were great, except well, sex ended a little "early."

Next week, I called him, and he called me back the next day. I was so upset that when we saw each other at a mutual event (though he came up right away to hug me), I avoided and ignored him. It became a game of push and pull. The afterparty, I was drunk, but tried to bring up the topic of why he didn't answer my calls and wanting to stop "this". It took a very long time due to my intoxication. I couldn't say it. I just kept on alluding to it, saying, "Do you think... this is inorganic?" (our process). He finally just said he wanted to be friends (and I felt devestated because I wanted to say it! I felt rejected and my ego is bruised).

Anyway, I left in a hateful fashion. I called him a day later to apologize my drunkenness, but told him I don't expect a response. Haven't heard from him. Both of us freaked out and gave up, that's why.
 
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