Whyyy is this so frustrating?!?!

[littlelibra]

Hi everyone,

So I’ve known this guy for about a year now, and there is an obvious attraction between the two of us that really has gone nowhere, which is bewildering to me considering some of the aspects that we share in our synastry chart such as Venus trine Uranus or the few Pluto trines we share. For context, we met online by chance and only live a few hours apart from each other. We’ve made multiple plans to meet up but he always flakes at the last minute, and conversations between us rarely go beyond “hey how are you, what have you been up to?”

I’m so frustrated bc he’s always checking up on me but our convos go nowhere!!! Why?! What in our synastry is causing this? I’m so frustrated! Any insight is appreciated

(Ps, his chart is the outer wheel, I am the inner wheel.)

 

[waybread]

I think this is a guy who really values his independence. Based on your conversations, you seem ready to take the relationship to the next level, but someone with a lot of Aries and Aquarius (plus Saturn in emotional Cancer) needs his space. Which an arm's-length Internet "relationship" provides him.

I think you share some more significant aspects, such as sextiled moons and your sun oppositions, but I don't know that he's committed relationship material. Libra is, but Aries-Aquarius, not so much.

 

[littlelibra]

I think this is a guy who really values his independence. Based on your conversations, you seem ready to take the relationship to the next level, but someone with a lot of Aries and Aquarius (plus Saturn in emotional Cancer) needs his space. Which an arm's-length Internet "relationship" provides him.

I think you share some more significant aspects, such as sextiled moons and your sun oppositions, but I don't know that he's committed relationship material. Libra is, but Aries-Aquarius, not so much.

Thank you for your insight