Will he invite me for the Bew Year’s Eve

[dali]

Hi. I was wondering if someone I met last month might make a step forward and invite me to, f. ex., spend the New Year’s Eve together. We live in different countries and met only briefly. There wasn’t anything romantic between us, but we spend several days hanging out together and talking, and I felt we both like each other. I know he doesn’t like to have anyone abroad - something I deducted when he talked about his family. However, we keep in touch. And a while ago I had a feeling I missed an indirect invitation to an event. I hope that somehow we’ll meet again.

 

[IleneK]

As interested in each other as this chart suggests, this other person/Jup applies to square Saturn, which I see as an obstruction. There is no aspect between you/Merc and Jup as Merc separates.
Moon applies to Jup, but again by square.
I am inclined to say no about the invitation for new years

 

[dali]

As interested in each other as this chart suggests, this other person/Jup applies to square Saturn, which I see as an obstruction. There is no aspect between you/Merc and Jup as Merc separates.
Moon applies to Jup, but again by square.
I am inclined to say no about the invitation for new years

Thank you for the answer, Ilene.
I’m wondering though if you meant the Moon making a square to the Sun, cause that’s the only applying aspect I could find. I’m also wondering if the square means a delay or no meeting at all, and I’m curious what Saturn can symbolizes here. Maybe it shows the long distance?

I thought the answer will be no, even regardless the chart. It’s possible we’re both too insecure about pushing it further, as there’s not only the long distance, but also nothing was verbalized, so there’s a possibility of rejection.

 

[IleneK]

Thank you for the answer, Ilene.
I’m wondering though if you meant the Moon making a square to the Sun, cause that’s the only applying aspect I could find.

You are welcome, dali.
No I meant Moon/you apply to square this other person/Jup/ruler of the 7th. This aspect shows in the table of aspects.

I’m also wondering if the square means a delay or no meeting at all, and I’m curious what Saturn can symbolizes here. Maybe it shows the long distance?

Moon square Sun is not a favorable contact. I am not sure exactly how it might play out here.
Saturn is a malefic. Contact with it by square is an unfavorable testimony or piece of evidence from the chart to factor into the overall conclusion. I am not aware of it signifying long distance?

I thought the answer will be no, even regardless the chart. It’s possible we’re both too insecure about pushing it further, as there’s not only the long distance, but also nothing was verbalized, so there’s a possibility of rejection.

Both of your significators, Merc and Jup, being in the sign of their detriment suggests this lack of power to act, really on both of your parts.
But this is not because you both don't like each other. You do both like each other.

 

[dali]

You are welcome, dali.
No I meant Moon/you apply to square this other person/Jup/ruler of the 7th. This aspect shows in the table of aspects.

Ah, sorry, I meant that the Moon already separated from Jupiter, and the only applying Moon’s aspect is with Sun, but I’m also not sure what it can be.

Moon square Sun is not a favorable contact. I am not sure exactly how it might play out here.
Saturn is a malefic. Contact with it by square is an unfavorable testimony or piece of evidence from the chart to factor into the overall conclusion. I am not aware of it signifying long distance?

That’s probably just my wrong interpretation, cause I was wondering what kind of obstacle Saturn is here. Could it be a mother? And for me, maybe it symbolizes work? I might move to another continent because of work, but I’m trying to prevent that.

Both of your significators, Merc and Jup, being in the sign of their detriment suggests this lack of power to act, really on both of your parts.
But this is not because you both don't like each other. You do both like each other.

Yes, that’s exactly how it feels.

I’m wondering if the situation in the chart relates to my exact question only (the New Year’s Eve), or shows something general like no future meeting at all. I do hope to keep this friendship and to meet again one day.

 

[IleneK]

Ah, sorry, I meant that the Moon already separated from Jupiter, and the only applying Moon’s aspect is with Sun, but I’m also not sure what it can be.

Moon is in partile exact square to Jupiter within one minute. That is pretty exact to me rather than separating.
I've already commented on how Sun Moon square as a general indicator is not particularly favorable.

That’s probably just my wrong interpretation, cause I was wondering what kind of obstacle Saturn is here. Could it be a mother? And for me, maybe it symbolizes work? I might move to another continent because of work, but I’m trying to prevent that.

A horary chart can't see if Saturn is mother or work. It would depend upon the specificity with which you stated your original question. Or looking at the context of your life, it would be for you to determine. The domain of the 10th is significant.

Yes, that’s exactly how it feels.

I’m wondering if the situation in the chart relates to my exact question only (the New Year’s Eve), or shows something general like no future meeting at all. I do hope to keep this friendship and to meet again one day.

It related to the question you put forth.
That is why it is important to give a lot of thought to what you want to ask and to then ask the true clear underlying question.

 

[dali]

Moon is in partile exact square to Jupiter within one minute. That is pretty exact to me rather than separating.
I've already commented on how Sun Moon square as a general indicator is not particularly favorable.

A horary chart can't see if Saturn is mother or work. It would depend upon the specificity with which you stated your original question. Or looking at the context of your life, it would be for you to determine. The domain of the 10th is significant.

It related to the question you put forth.
That is why it is important to give a lot of thought to what you want to ask and to then ask the true clear underlying question.

Thank you for the explanations.
That’s good to know. I meant only this one particular event in my question. However, some time ago I read a thread saying you can always see more things in the horary chart, the future development of the situation and so on. It also said negative answers relate to no aspects, and difficult aspects sometimes show an action, but with obstacles. So it confused me. Thanks for explaining.

 

[IleneK]

Thank you for the explanations.
That’s good to know. I meant only this one particular event in my question. However, some time ago I read a thread saying you can always see more things in the horary chart, the future development of the situation and so on. It also said negative answers relate to no aspects, and difficult aspects sometimes show an action, but with obstacles. So it confused me. Thanks for explaining.

You are welcome.
There may be other things that can be seen in a chart. But the chart is about the question you ask. If you want to know about other things, ask about and make a chart for them.

 

[dali]

To give an update that might refer somehow to the chart, he had to move out from his flat just before Christmas.

 

[IleneK]

Still no word on New Year's Eve?

 

[dali]

Still no word on New Year's Eve?

No, there’s no invitation, only news about the obstacles caused by moving out and other difficulties. And even if there was one, I wouldn't be able to accept it. I’ve caught a terrible cold and will be spending the New Year’s Eve recovering at home.

 

[IleneK]

I am sorry you are ill, dali.
Thank you for the update on the answer to the question. It helps us learn.