Will I seperate?

[turkish girl]

Currently I am a bit worried and a bored from life.Losing the freedom and everything has exceptionally changed that sometimes gives confusion to my mind.

I am now 3 month pregnant.I have no urge regarding my job ,getting bored of married life.

Will I really get seperate from my partner?

 

[turkish girl]

Can u move my post to relations section please?Here no one see it

 

[IleneK]

If you want this question in the Relational Astrology forum, you will need to post your natal charts there and also maybe the synastry chart, with his chart around yours.
This horary chart cannot be used in the Relational Astrology forum.
PS While you may wish to post to the Relational forum, you might also consider leaving this post here. Someone may answer it if you give more time? And horary is the best way to try to answer this kind of question.

 

[waybread]

I don't think so. It's more like you're not connecting. The sun (you) falls in Libra in the 4th house of home, and your moon in Cancer is in the 12th house of people who are (or feel) shut-in in some way, so you might be feeling a bit trapped at present.

But, (((Hello??))) You are thinking about becoming a single parent, despite what is best for your child? How are you focusing on what is best for your baby? Unless your spouse/partner is pushing for separation, it's not somehow up to the planets to determine how your relationship plays out. It's your call, your conscious decision.

Boredom??? You have within your means the power to become more interested in life.

BTW, Saturn in the 7th house is a classic indicator of the querent not liking the astrologer's answer.

 

[turkish girl]

If you want this question in the Relational Astrology forum, you will need to post your natal charts there and also maybe the synastry chart, with his chart around yours.
This horary chart cannot be used in the Relational Astrology forum.
PS While you may wish to post to the Relational forum, you might also consider leaving this post here. Someone may answer it if you give more time? And horary is the best way to try to answer this kind of question.

No I was meaning horary relations question section.I think I put it on general page anyways ppl are replying still thanks.

 

[turkish girl]

I don't think so. It's more like you're not connecting. The sun (you) falls in Libra in the 4th house of home, and your moon in Cancer is in the 12th house of people who are (or feel) shut-in in some way, so you might be feeling a bit trapped at present.

But, (((Hello??))) You are thinking about becoming a single parent, despite what is best for your child? How are you focusing on what is best for your baby? Unless your spouse/partner is pushing for separation, it's not somehow up to the planets to determine how your relationship plays out. It's your call, your conscious decision.

Boredom??? You have within your means the power to become more interested in life.

BTW, Saturn in the 7th house is a classic indicator of the querent not liking the astrologer's answer.

Thanks for reply,

No no why should I not like ur answer.
I am exhausted moved my work place to another place so new because where me and husband working there together other Co workers were making mobbing to me because of that.It made a really bad effect on my marriage.And I just rethink about what has happened again and again.

My partner would be surprised (actually sad)if He saw my question here.I just want these days so bad that taking my jacket and going to somewhere.

I constantly asking myself about timin of baby would it be better if I wait more.

Do u mean I feel shut up or people around me feel they talk to me but I dont hear their words.

 

[HeartTree]

, the ruler of 4th from 7th house rules the end of this matter, and is also classical ruler of divorce. It is located at 11th house of your hopes and wishes. Your ruler is debilitated in , you don't have strength to act accordingly to your wishes. Moon is at 12th house of self-undoing.

Your spouse is at his own house in his own sign. In this case I would say it heralds he don’t know at all what you are thinking. He is focuses on himself and is strong in his own sing. Separation is usually seen by one planet leaving the other. Chart is quite blurry but if I see correctly is moving away from . Your ruler is also soon applying trine to separation ruler . So it shows willingness to separate. But as 10th house rules career, it could also be some pleasant change in that are. If that has been issue in your relationship.

is gathering some accidentally dignity being in angular house. I’m not sure if this is enough for you to carry separation through, as you are being hurt by being debilitated in sign of Libra. He on the other hand has upper hand here.

 

[waybread]

Turkish girl, did you ask the question that is really bothering you?

 

[turkish girl]

Turkish girl, did you ask the question that is really bothering you?

Turkish girl, did you ask the question that is really bothering you?

Asking this question you mean.Yeah asking it and thinking about it bothers me.Even writing it here because when you write down it becomes visible stuff.

I just dont know ,seperating maybe for a while would make me feel better and recharge and turn back .But as another lady write above I have no courage ,no energy.I feel my ex work place just consumed all of my energy and because the people at there I project everything ,and every little bad thing on my husband and thought it happens because of him.

I have a doc friend She says It can be normal thinking up to highest to lowest maybe extreme in pregnancy but these thinkings were captured my mind since the beginning of the year.

I involved 3rd part or they involved not with my permission into my relationship and it damaged to us.I constantly thought about if I made a right decision about marriage like obsession then burn out now with the help of hormones.

 

[ElenaJ]

Your significator sun in the 4th of family and home will trine mars in the 11th, and mars rules the 5th house, children.
Once your child is born, you should be a lot less bored.
Moon in cancer will want to nurture and become domestic. The trine to Neptune in the 9th of spiritual thoughts will help you have more insight.
Your ascendent Leo wants to have fun, and you can still do this, but the approaching Saturn/uranus square will lead you to seek a balance between freedom and responsibility.
Take care, and enjoy your new family.

 

[waybread]

Turkish girl, as a medical professional, you know that pregnancy is dramatically changing your hormones. I think it's normal for a lot of emotional changes to accompany your physical changes.

Have you tried counseling? Highly recommended. You might discuss with a counselor your tendency to blame your husband and co-workers for your very real feelings of unhappiness.

I don't think separating on its own will stop you from blaming other people. You can still blame them, regardless.

This is also a good time to do an exercise class, or just power-walking in your neighborhood. Exercise is a big mood enhancer, and will also strengthen your Mars-- a big energizer.

I think you understand enough about your natal horoscope to consider what would feed and nourish your sun. Your sun is your sense of vitality and how you most feel like your true self.

 

[turkish girl]

I have been a bit busy at work.Yesterday I have opened my ideas to my husband about if we had baby a bit early if we should have waited.
He got surprised of course and told He thought both we wanted.
Of course I want one day but I am still in fear of somethings.He told me you could not get used to the idea of marriage and entegrated it in your life.I think this is right.Attached and attachment with a kid to a guy comes scary even though He is a good guy.

I will continue counselling my doctor and will figure out hopefully . Just I am glad seperating is not there on stars

 

[waybread]

Time to grow up, Mama?

 

[turkish girl]

Time to grow up, Mama?

When you grow up you see somethings more clear.This is why I am getting upset waybread

 

[waybread]

What about your responsibilities? What is best for your baby-to-be? One parent present the child's life, or both of them?

I am sorry. Saturn in the 7th is one of those traditional strictures against judgement, because it meant that the querent would dislike the astrologer's answer.

Please keep in mind that the sun (you) falls in Libra. It's understandable that you're feeling low at this time. But Libra exalts Saturn (your husband.) Possibly you still love the guy enough to stay with him through the birth of your child.

You are strong enough to get through this.

 

[turkish girl]

What about your responsibilities? What is best for your baby-to-be? One parent present the child's life, or both of them?

I am sorry. Saturn in the 7th is one of those traditional strictures against judgement, because it meant that the querent would dislike the astrologer's answer.

Please keep in mind that the sun (you) falls in Libra. It's understandable that you're feeling low at this time. But Libra exalts Saturn (your husband.) Possibly you still love the guy enough to stay with him through the birth of your child.

You are strong enough to get through this.

I know what you mean.Of course baby needs there should be a father but thing is love is not enough for pursuing things ahead.