Will they text me back?

[girlinthelobby]

Hi! I’m in a weird spot with this Cancer friend right now. I have no idea how they feel about me anymore. We were never super close to begin with, I met them for the first time in person a couple weeks ago and we really hit it off. We made out, flirted all night, and we have also had plans for me to visit them when I visit their state next week. I developed a big crush on them after hanging out with them that night, and though they gave me their # and texted me very flirtatious things, after that day they never said anything else. I let it go because they were on a national tour and busy, but their band members were still talking to me. the only thing I’d said since then was over a week ago saying i confirmed my dates for their city and they didn’t reply. last night I drunk texted them being silly and said something like ‘i think you’d love my costume tonight’ and when they didn’t reply I went ‘okay at this point i’m convinced you didn’t save my #’. I just don’t know what the problem is. they watched my story, didn’t unfollow me, and I know they might still be busy wrapping stuff up from tour. but NO reply? it makes me feel a little weird. would love to know what the chart says.

 

[girlinthelobby]

for more context, when i talked to other people on that tour about this today, they did say this friend was really stressed out from tour, described them as ‘an airhead’, and said to just wait it out & they’re sure everything is probably fine. if they don’t reach out, i don’t plan on texting again until i am literally IN their city next week 10 mins from them hahaha

 

[Chrysalis]

Although I don't see them texting you back, I do see that you'll make absolutely sure they see you when you visit their city next week.

You might as well take a megaphone and some stilts with you

 

[girlinthelobby]

Although I don't see them texting you back, I do see that you'll make absolutely sure they see you when you visit their city next week.

You might as well take a megaphone and some stilts with you

WHATTT like in a positive way? omg I’m so curious about this hahaha

 

[Chrysalis]

WHATTT like in a positive way? omg I’m so curious about this hahaha

5th ruler Sun is on the dsc. Which i envisoned as you making 100% sure that you are seen by them when you go to their city next week.

 

[girlinthelobby]

5th ruler Sun is on the dsc. Which i envisoned as you making 100% sure that you are seen by them when you go to their city next week.

I kind of love it haha. i do always get my way. just hoping it is in a positive context. if they don’t want to answer their phone, they’ll see me somehow- sounds like me hehe

 

[girlinthelobby]

question, if i want to make another chart with the question ‘should i send a message when i’m in their city?’, should i just look to this chart or create a new horary chart? it feels like a different question to me but I am unsure.

 

[ElenaJ]

His 3rd is saturn, your 3rd is moon. and there is no connection here.
Saturn and venus, your significator, do separate from aspect, so here too there is no connection.
His significator mars opposing pluto, elimination!
Your 3rd ruler moon will approach a square to the mars/pluto opposition, so your text might just irritate him.

 

[girlinthelobby]

His 3rd is saturn, your 3rd is moon. and there is no connection here.
Saturn and venus, your significator, do separate from aspect, so here too there is no connection.
His significator mars opposing pluto, elimination!
Your 3rd ruler moon will approach a square to the mars/pluto opposition, so your text might just irritate him.

so is this is just for the texts, but we still might see each other in person? should I do another chart on that separately ? I'm just curious

 

[ElenaJ]

should I do another chart on that separately

probably, since this one was in answer to a specific question.

 

[girlinthelobby]

5th ruler Sun is on the dsc. Which i envisoned as you making 100% sure that you are seen by them when you go to their city next week.

Interesting update to this. I started to care less about this situation (I didn't fully lose my interest in them but I wasn't focusing on it). I'd pretty much resigned to the fact I didn't think I'd see them, and if I did I'd have to scheme or run into them. Well, I swiped up on their story complimenting them last night and they just replied.. like nothing ever happened lol. I asked if I'd still see them in their city and they said 'probably not', because they'll be in MY CITY this week. I asked for dates because I doubt our dates overlap entirely but they left it on seen / delivered.. kinda annoying. But interesting..