Will we be okay a month from now?

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girlinthelobby

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Hi, my Sagittarius friend and I have always had a lot of tension. He is my friend that I used to date and I'd hate to lose him since we've been through SO MUCH together, but since we've gotten closer this year our conversations can become really touchy and often end in a miscommunication or heated discussion. Even after we've had a good day. He said something that disappointed and hurt me again last night and followed it up by randomly texted something cold and out of the blue today. He is very dramatic and I always want us to just be okay but I can't even put my energy into it anymore because I am so busy in my own life. I know he'll just do the same thing over and over again and part of what I said to him last night was 'I'm just gonna stand back and let you figure out your feelings about this'. I don't harbor any big feelings towards our conversations anymore, like I said I just want us to be at an okay, neutral good place at best, also because I have a small trip planned to go see his project in less than a month with our friends. I'd still like to be able to be excited for that. So, will we be good then?
 

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The Moon's last aspect is a square to Mars. This shows, as you said, the heated tension between the two of you. The Moon is in the 8th (crisis, losses), and Mars is on the cusp of the 5th (pleasures, sex). The Moon pushes its agenda to Mars (Moon is exalted in Taurus), describing the reason for these tensions as the end or loss of enjoyment and pleasure.

Maybe you need to come to terms with the possibility that you don't particularly enjoy being around this person. It's clear that your friend desires more from you than you do from them. In the chart, you are represented by Jupiter, and they are represented by Mercury, both in Gemini - Mercury's sign. He is much more invested in things than you are.

In fact, you are out of your element in this situation (Jupiter in Gemini - a sign opposite its own) and the work you have put into maintaining things comes with little reward and lots of stress (6th house).

As stated earlier, the Moon is in a house of crisis/endings. Its next aspects involve a sequence of sextiles to the planets in Gemini, connecting Jupiter (you) and Mercury (them) but to the Sun burning Mercury and Venus on the cusp of the 7th house, emphasizing the toxicity, and trouble in your relationship. I think this trip will end up very unpleasant. You may want to reconsider.
 
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The Moon's last aspect is a square to Mars. This shows, as you said, the heated tension between the two of you. The Moon is in the 8th (crisis, losses), and Mars is on the cusp of the 5th (pleasures, sex). The Moon pushes its agenda to Mars (Moon is exalted in Taurus), describing the reason for these tensions as the end or loss of enjoyment and pleasure.

Maybe you need to come to terms with the possibility that you don't particularly enjoy being around this person. It's clear that your friend desires more from you than you do from them. In the chart, you are represented by Jupiter, and they are represented by Mercury, both in Gemini - Mercury's sign. He is much more invested in things than you are.

In fact, you are out of your element in this situation (Jupiter in Gemini - a sign opposite its own) and the work you have put into maintaining things comes with little reward and lots of stress (6th house).

As stated earlier, the Moon is in a house of crisis/endings. Its next aspects involve a sequence of sextiles to the planets in Gemini, connecting Jupiter (you) and Mercury (them) but to the Sun burning Mercury and Venus on the cusp of the 7th house, emphasizing the toxicity, and trouble in your relationship. I think this trip will end up very unpleasant. You may want to reconsider.
interesting! like super interesting.. I'm about to be so busy for the rest of the month that I doubt I'll have a second of time to think of our situation, so that makes sense I'd be less involved. I wonder if the chart shows any toxicity or anger from him with money represented, as his cold text was him demanding money from me (for a speeding ticket he got in MY car). I agree that trying to maintain things comes with little reward and lots of stress, we have good small moments surrounded in big clouds of tension. When I mention trying to be at an 'okay, neutral' place with him, I really try to remain in a positive headspace (which often just means making myself forget the last hurtful thing he did/said and fake a smile) when we talk so we can avoid arguments. However, the second he says or does something hurtful and I have any emotion towards it, he doesn't want to deal with his actions, says he has to go, and elevates the situation x100. I wonder if things will be better if I just avoid longer conversations him for a while, which is what I'm doing now.
 
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